is like being told, "I love you. I don't agree in divorce. I should trust you to keep your vow before God. But deep down I really don't. I think you'll cop out sometime. Or try to manipulate me. Would you mind signing this?"
If the court system were catholic and fair, then I agree. As it is, the system is so skewed that, in essence, women have a court-ordered prenup by law. As soon as a man marries a woman, by law, he's financially screwed if she ever gets a divorce (even if she doesn't remarry).
It's like a gun being pointed at a man by a woman's brother (who's a nut), who threatens that if the wife ever called him he would not hesitate to kill the husband. And the man says, "Hey man, I'm going to marry your sister and I love her, but won't you trust me, calm down, and get out of our life?" And the wife says to the husband, "Oh honey, we love each other and I would never tell him to shoot you, just trust me." And the man is supposed to continue on with the marriage, even though the threat still exists and the brother can be called anytime. Yet if the husband asks the wife to agree to call the cops on the brother and stop his threatening ways, then the husband is guilty of not trusting the wife.
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