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Offline Cantarella

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Do You Choose Your Words Wisely?
« on: July 21, 2014, 10:23:47 PM »
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  • This is an excellent reminder of the tremendous…and somewhat terrifying…impact our words can make.

    The Power of a Woman’s Words

    Listen do you hear them? Open your front door and step out into the world, they swarm around and surround us on every side. Small ones with tremendous impact. Large ones looming and misunderstood. Swirling. Churning. Spinning. Burning. Listen, do you hear them? One of the mightiest forces in all creation……Words. When God created the world and all it contains, He did so with words. He said, “Let there be,” and there was.

    Amazingly, when God created man in His own image, He gave us that same powerful tool. With a simple word we can create a smile on a discouraged child’s face, lighten the heart of a husband loaded down with burdens, fan into flame the dying embers of a friend’s smoldering dreams, cheer brothers and sisters in Christ to run the race with endurance, and bring the message of hope and healing of Jesus Christ to a wounded world.

    Words are one of the most powerful forces in the universe and amazingly, God has entrusted them to you and me. How will we use this priceless gift? The Bible tells us, “death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs 18:21) and we don’t have to go any further than our front door to see the difference our words can make. Let’s look at two areas where we have incredible impact.

    Words Have a Big Impact on Little People

    The boys lined up on the starting line, waiting for the starting gun to begin the 3.1 mile race through a path in the woods. Parents and fans stood on the sidelines ready to burst into cheers as the herd of young men readied themselves for the State Championship Cross Country meet. My nephew, Stu, was among the runners that day.

    As soon as Stu’s foot left the starting position, his mother, Pat, picked up her 36 inch brightly painted megaphone and began to yell. “GO STU!” she cheered, not once but at ten second intervals. When he was out of sight, she ran to another strategic spot along the winding trail where the runners would eventually pass by. And even though the boys were nowhere in sight, Pat continued to cheer, “GO STU!” At one point she yelled, “GO STU!” and a man from across the park yelled, “HE CAN’T HEEEAAAAR YOOOOUUUU!”

    “I don’t know if you can hear me or not, ” Pat murmured, “but if there’s a chance he can, I want him to hear my voice cheering him on.”

    So for 16 minutes this little dynamo continued to pump confidence and courage into her son’s heart. After the race, I asked Stu…..Read more here.

    http://finerfem.wordpress.com/2014/07/21/do-you-choose-your-words-wisely/
    If anyone says that true and natural water is not necessary for baptism and thus twists into some metaphor the words of our Lord Jesus Christ" Unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Spirit" (Jn 3:5) let him be anathema.


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    Do You Choose Your Words Wisely?
    « Reply #1 on: July 21, 2014, 10:30:46 PM »
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  • Attention, Ladies!:

    Woman's words can also make or break a Man


    Here is a concise list on words to say and to avoid:

    Words to Avoid with Your Children

    You canʼt do anything right.
    You are driving me crazy!
    You make me so upset!
    You make me so angry!
    Why did you do that?
    Why canʼt you make good grades like your sister/brother?
    Look at all Iʼve done for you.
    You donʼt love me.
    Iʼve told you a thousand times.
    Youʼll never learn, will you?

    Twenty-five things never to say to your husband.

    I told you so.
    Youʼre always in a bad mood.
    You just donʼt think.
    Itʼs all your fault.
    Whatʼs wrong with you?
    All you ever do is complain.
    I canʼt do anything to please you.
    You made your bed, now lie in it.
    You should have thought about that before.
    You never listen to me.
    All you care about is yourself.
    I donʼt know why I put up with you.
    I can talk to you until Iʼm blue in the face and it doesnʼt do any good.
    If you donʼt like it, you know where the door is.
    That was stupid.
    Whatʼs your problem?
    You think youʼre always right.
    Youʼre donʼt own me.
    You never help me around the house.
    Who do you think you are?
    Youʼre impossible.
    What do you want now?
    You are such a big baby.
    Itʼs all about you, isnʼt it?
    How many times do I have to tell you?


    Twenty-five things your husband longs to hear

    Iʼve been thinking about you all day.
    What can I do for you today?
    How can I pray for you today?
    The best part of my day is when you come home.
    You are one of Godʼs most precious gifts to me.
    Thank you.
    Iʼm sorry .
    You are so wonderful.
    You look so handsome today.
    You make my day brighter.
    I donʼt feel complete without you.
    You are my best friend.
    I love spending time with you.
    Thank you for taking such good care of me.
    You are my knight in shining armor.
    I will always love you.
    I trust your decisions.
    I can always count on you.
    What would you like to do?
    I prize every moment weʼre together.
    I see Godʼs fingerprints all over you.
    You are such an inspiration to so many people.
    You are such a wonderful father.
    You could give classes on how to be a great husband.
    I believe in you.
    What do you think?


    Words Children Longs to Hear

    Iʼm glad youʼre my sondaughter.
    I love spending time with you.
    I'll never forget the day you were born.
    You were such an incredible gift from God…and you still are.
    Youʼll make a wonderful wifehusband some day.
    Thanks for cleaning your room. You did a great job.
    You teach me so much about life.
    I can always count on you.
    You are Godʼs special gift to me.
    My favorite part of the day is picking you up from school.
    Youʼre such a good helper.
    I'm proud of you!
    I knew you could do it!
    God made a masterpiece when He made you.
    How did you get so smart
    If anyone says that true and natural water is not necessary for baptism and thus twists into some metaphor the words of our Lord Jesus Christ" Unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Spirit" (Jn 3:5) let him be anathema.


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    Do You Choose Your Words Wisely?
    « Reply #2 on: July 21, 2014, 11:37:49 PM »
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  • Just as easily could be titled the power of a man's words too.  Thanks for posting this, Cantarella.