It’s definitely something I have work on!

By far the most important thing is always to have RESPECT, DEFERENCE, and OBEDIENCE towards your husband, no matter what ... even if outwardly he doesn't seem to live up to it, just as one would have respect for a priest even if he's not measuring up to his state in life.

As for football, most leagues today are KEENLY aware of the potential for injury and concussions in particular.  Probably within 5-10 years we'll have only touch football being played at the High School level.  They're working on developing helmets to prevent concussions.

In the case of a disagreement, you can make your opinion heard, but you must still RESPECT your husband's decision and defer to it.  Not just "keep silent" while stewing over it inside, but, as is the case with, say, the Magisterium, give a true internal assent.  That true internal assent owed to the Magisterium is the same type of attitude that a wife must have to her husband, and not just outward lipservice.  Once you develop that habit, feminism will very quickly be uprooted at the core.  Of course, the limit is that if the husband were to command something immoral or contrary to the laws of God or contrary to justice, but even then, instead of losing respect, ask a priest to intervene and set him straight.

And, as Quid mentioned, NEVER EVER ridicule or poke fun of your husband.  Women tend to get together in groups and deride their husbands as if they were idiots.  Steer clear of the company of such women, and even object when the conversation turns in that direction.  You see all kinds of TV programs and commercials where the husband is always the idiot and the buffoon who must be "set straight" by his wife.  That's deliberate social engineering intended to upset the natural order created by God.

I’m rather short, and long skirts are hard to walk in lol is knee length, or calf length still modest? Obviously anything over the knees is just not to be worn.

I’m rather short, and long skirts are hard to walk in lol is knee length, or calf length still modest? Obviously anything over the knees is just not to be worn.

I think that to be practical and remain modest in day to day life mid-calf is best. Definitely long enough to cover your knees completely when sitting. 
A skirt which just cover your knees standing are not modest when playing with kids on the floor or doing the homework ! 

Personally I think the single biggest and most demonstrative rejection of feminism it the rejection and condemnation of the sin of birth control. 

Obvious things:

- contentiousness
- contraception/abortion
- short hair
- wearing pants, shorts and sleeveless shirts
- smoking
- working a paid job or unpaid voluntary work while married
- doing the more physical labors of household / homestead maintenance while the husband is able-bodied

Subtle things:

- belittling the husband or other men through "innocent" humor or idle talk with other people. This is a deliberate psychological campaign to attack the dignity of men and husbands that is ubiquitous in commercials, TV shows and movies. Women and men, alike, are easily influenced by it, and, usually, men are too asleep or soy to recognize it and stop it cold in its tracks.

- involvement in any type of public awareness or event that is exclusively focused on females
- equal say in household affairs
- equal power over finances
- wife discouraging sons from taking on physical hardships or anything that helps them become men.
- wife encouraging daughters to compete with boys or teaching them they're "equal to boys"

I know I'm missing some good examples. I'm sure there are some real good examples out there that other people can give...

I really like this list. I work to fight what I call, "the feminist in me".

Another horrible feminist trait is the, "I can do it myself or I can do it better than my husband."

Oh that’s a good idea! I didn’t think of that. Glad I asked here first!

Is contentiousness not a lack of charity? If so, how could it possibly apply only to the gentler sex?