There hasn't been any "trash your tv" talk in the SSPX for maybe a year and a half, at least not that I've heard. I do not know of anyone in my chapel who doesn't have a tv--there may be some as I don't know everyone! I'd be frank with grandma and tell her that the show is trashy, then immediately pull out a game, photo album, decent movie on cd, SOMETHING else to do, then start doing it. Don't show anger or disgust. Be kind, but firm, "matter-of-fact." If that doesn't work, spend lots of time in the w.c. BTW. I do not own a tv, haven't since 1978.