Damned if you do and damned if you don't. For years those few women who chose to remain in the traditional roles were excoriated by everyone. Now the whole thing is reversed. But I read years ago that women (at least some) were coming to the realization that they were getting a raw deal with all the liberating. These days I see more and more men insisting that their women work, esp. if they have some college education. People and their five year plans!