And I was being serious.
Telling men to move for the sake of "trad" (chapel clique girls) women. Seriously bad advice.
You think Miss Trad America
Yeah they all think they're special.
is just going to come knock on the door just because they want her to?
It depends on what they want. If they really want Catholic marriage, and not to play games, and they like a man, they will be attentive.
You can't properly meet and connect with people at the distances they are talking about.
I do think it can take time to pique their interest. I'm not sure it's really a good thing to be doing necessarily. Because you might end up with one.
Best to not tell anyone anything about yourself. And to get them alone, and not try to meet more than one at a time, because once you get one mad at you they'll do what they can to sabotage you.