She’s thoroughly European, not outside my race. I reject miscegenation.

I stand corrected. Thank you, I have amended my post accordingly.

She’s thoroughly European, not outside my race. I reject miscegenation.

Miscegenation is acceptable if the man is white. Because in that case it is the white race conquering the foreigner. But it is not acceptable if the woman is white, because that would mean that the white race is being conquered by the foreigner.

Something causes me to doubt this.  I'd bet you've not raised the issue with her.  If you brought it up, I suspect it would be your last date.

Hard to believe, I know. But she’s an actual traditionalist. Exceedingly rare today, that’s for sure. 

Miscegenation is acceptable if the man is white. Because in that case it is the white race conquering the foreigner. But it is not acceptable if the woman is white, because that would mean that the white race is being conquered by the foreigner.

Miscegenation is only acceptable between elves and hobbits actually.

My wife is half Cuban (through her mother's side) but her mother insists that her family came from Spain and that she doesn't actually have any Cuban blood.  She also claims to be a descendant of St. Ignatius of Loyola ... hopefully not a direct descendant (except perhaps from his pre-conversion days, where he was known to have been something of a womanizer).

Incorrect. She was born and raised in Mexico. Mexican citizen. The ruling class in Mexico is largely white; that is, of European extraction. She’s a “hispanic white,” flowing from the Conquistadors. 
Incidentally, she’s very proud that her great great grandfather was a Cristero.

You’re conflating citizenship with ethnicity and race.

Moreover as to the bolded part of your statement:

QFT

Quantum Field Theory?
Question Formulation Technique?
Qu**rs For Trump?

I don't get it.

Here's some personal advice, probably worth what you paid for it.

"Looking" is probably the worst way of finding a spouse.

it puts out a "vibe" of either predation or desperation that will likely "put off" any worthy "candidates."

The best way to "find" a spouse is to do the things you enjoy. That gives you the opportunity to encounter someone who has mutual interests that can help bonding.

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt, got the Dear John letter, listen to Mark79, he knows what he's talking about.


This said, in my perfect world, I would match up men and women who are explicitly seeking marriage, and don't wish to waste their time, or anybody else's time, with those who "need their space", "aren't ready to settle down yet", "having too good a time to get married", and so on.  Let women such as that, have their joyous little single lives, and focus on the women who are seeking matrimony. 

But I can also tell you, some of those "girls who just want to have fun" end up waiting too long, being too picky, "aging out" of the eligible marriage market, and end up as lifelong spinsters, no children, no one to marry, no one who will have them, at best, "fun aunts" who may, or may not, have nephews, nieces, and cousins who might remember them ten years after they're dead.  I've known of cases.  Cruises, mimosas and margaritas, endless nights out with the girlfriends, a closet full of Manolo Blahniks, it's really pretty pathetic, compared with those heroic Catholic wives and mothers who have large families, children, and grandchildren at their side every day of their lives.