Either way, the biggest tragedy in all this is that we adopted a paradigm that made it almost impossible for us to live our Faith in terms of raising large families.
The people I know that have the most struggles for basic needs aren't large families apart from the few who are basically have single mothers because the husband is a run off or in prison. Food is never an issue because they receive an enormous amount of food stamps every month.
I don't know any large protestant or Catholic families that don't live in a stable dwelling place or are lining up at the community free meal. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but it's not where I see abject poverty.