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Offline Matthew

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Confidence and boldness do NOT equal being correct
« on: September 04, 2014, 10:26:36 PM »
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  • I have noticed that an almost inverse relationship exists between

    A) level of confidence, forcefulness, boldness
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    B) being objectively correct

    I could list dozens of examples, but I'll just relate ONE personal anecdote.

    I have a non-religious stepmother-in-law (my wife's dad divorced her mom to marry another woman -- I'm referring here to that "other woman"). She recently told my son that Domingo isn't Spanish for Dominic -- after all, it's Spanish for "Sunday".

    Uh, no. She doesn't know Latin, nor does she know much about Saints' names, being a life-long non-Catholic. At least her "husband" was a Novus Ordo Catholic for a good decade-and-a-half.

    Frankly, my Spanish is better than hers. My Latin and my Japanese certainly are. She lived down by the border for a couple years, sure, but the rest of her time in Texas she has lived in her upper-middle-class bubble with a bunch of other similar white folk.

    But I'd never be inclined to start trouble by correcting her, even if she was obviously wrong about something. I guess it's because I'm the exact opposite (trying to get along with people as well as possible, vs. being abrasive)

    She doesn't realize that Domingo means "belonging to the Lord" as in The Lord's Day (Sunday) which is also the name Dominic. It comes from the Latin Dominicus.

    Why are some people so prone to correct others, even when they haven't a clue what they're talking about? Why are some people so puffed up with pride that they want to shine and look important/big/smart even when they are in a department where they should be racking up some HUMILITY by admitting their ignorance/weakness/etc.?

    Poor human nature.
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    Offline Kephapaulos

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    Confidence and boldness do NOT equal being correct
    « Reply #1 on: September 05, 2014, 01:07:44 AM »
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  • I know what you mean. That happens often in connection with moral issues. Many Catholics do not want to question whether they ARE living a truly moral life as a Catholic. Is that television show bad? Is dressing this or that way a distraction or modest? Is taking this item just? Many live by the modern world's option of the "double standard" that may, for example, prohibit serious lies but allow for "white lies". They may even be against the notion and practice of premarital relations but have no qualms, are indifferent, or even joke about them being shown or discussed nonchalantly in a movie or in some kind of medium.
    You brought to my mind, Matthew, something that I had been thinking of some time back. I thought about how many Catholics in the Novus Ordo are programmed to be like the Pharisees, considering the Jєωιѕн infiltration of the Church. Many Catholics may ask questions about certain truths and moral issues, but they do not really want the answer and change their lives in accordance with the Gospel. That is like when the Pharisees or other Jєωs would question our Lord to trap him in an argument but did not desire the Truth and live according to Him Who IS the Truth. There is also, of course, the fact that many in the Novus Ordo would compel a traditional Catholic to obey and conform to the "law" as did Pharisees wanted followers of our Lord to do.
    "Non nobis, Domine, non nobis; sed nomini tuo da gloriam..." (Ps. 113:9)


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    Confidence and boldness do NOT equal being correct
    « Reply #2 on: September 06, 2014, 05:45:51 PM »
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  • She probably just doesn't know that she doesn't know.  

    There was a time in the early 70's if someone told me I wasn't united to the Catholic Church, I would have argued tooth and nails that I was, AND believing every word I said.  
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