DZ frequently posts cryptic messages.
Perhaps he meant the Jєωιѕн men were just using the question as an opening for a pick-up line and your "mistake" was to assume it was just a casual question.
Why is it any more that tact and discretion is taken as being "cryptic"?
I can't flippin' win here; I'm either being a jerk, or I'm being "cryptic".
Anyway, whatever; leave it to Mar, a woman, to actually do what I intended to.
Yes that exactly what I was trying to say.
Add: It wouldn't be about "phenotype"
unless she was in a different area for, as sera indicates, this is common
for her. It isn't common for SS, that's why it is "funny" / tacitly unusual.
The thing to do is to determine what the change was but, wow, this really doesn't call for "Nancy Drew".
It might be good as a matter of situational awareness and discipline for SS, but that's about it. (attire? Location? Attention of Dudes?)
Weird thread.