I have never read it (besides this preview) but wholeheartedly support the concept of combining modesty and beauty. God created women in particular to be beautiful, and being modest and tasteful at the same time, inspires observers with an attraction to virtue. God is Beauty, and His creation ought to be a reflection of His divine perfections.
Women also tend to act more like ladies when dressed prettily and modestly. Fr. Lasance remarks that women are sweet by nature, and lose that sweetness through tarnishing their purity, and it seems to me that being pretty yet modest helps to preserve this sweetness, just as one would regard with greater care a beautiful diamond, than a piece of steel.
I am not sure where this untucked shirt, bulky skirt look originated. It is unattractive and boyish.
It is helpful to look at how Our Lady appeared in her various apparitions. One can tell that she is a woman, and her waist is always defined with some kind of an accessory, while the rest of the dress flows effortlessly around. This is a style of dress that is both modest and feminine, and that almost any body type can wear with ease.
Observing the way St. Thérèse of Lisieux and her sisters dressed is helpful as well. Their gentle-hearted, noble father was quite strict regarding modesty. Purity was inculcated in them from an early age by both parents, and as we all know, all five of the girls became saintly nuns.
I will attach some historical images which may serve as a good guide, for determining how to be properly feminine and modest at the same time, in case anyone finds this difficult to do. While I know the exact style of the different eras are not necessarily what we should strive for, the images provide ideas for what is considered proper, yet lovely.
I understand it is challenging, if not nearly impossible, to find the perfectly made dress that is attractive and adheres to Catholic standards. We must be creative! There are ways to utilize different items of clothing even from thrift stores, and combine them to create a fashionable, yet truly Catholic outfit.
