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Offline oppositeman

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« on: January 08, 2014, 08:03:22 AM »
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  • Can you add anything to this?

    Be respectful of other's opinions and differences in beliefs - state your opinion or belief and let it go at that - don't argue, that comes from the enemy, that's what he wants you to do - don't come across like "I am the complete and correct depository of 'The Word'",


    Offline crossbro

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    « Reply #1 on: January 08, 2014, 08:12:52 AM »
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  • I could add this:

    Get out of the kitchen.


    Offline Viva Cristo Rey

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    « Reply #2 on: January 08, 2014, 11:47:44 AM »
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  • Get more with honey then vinegar.
    May God bless you and keep you

    Offline Renzo

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    « Reply #3 on: January 08, 2014, 05:08:03 PM »
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  • I think the opening post is good advice!  I find I'm much better off when I try to accept people the way they are and don't try too hard to change them.  I especially do not want to nag someone.  It's like the tell them once and let it go rule.  

     
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    « Reply #4 on: January 08, 2014, 05:11:01 PM »
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  • I also find that online people tend to drop a lot of their social inhibitions.  In a way, it seems like the wild wild west.  In some ways, I like that because I think our culture is very oppressive of what's right and what's true, but otherwise I would hate it.  
    We are true israel and israel is in bondage.  


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    « Reply #5 on: January 08, 2014, 07:16:58 PM »
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  •  :dancing-banana:Many people act outrageously when they think they are anonymous.
     St. Francis Xavier threw a Crucifix into the sea, at once calming the waves.  Upon reaching the shore, the Crucifix was returned to him by a crab with a curious cross pattern on its shell.  

    Offline LaramieHirsch

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    « Reply #6 on: January 08, 2014, 07:29:58 PM »
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  • "Christian Online Behavior..."

    ...not what we have here.
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    Before some audiences not even the possession of the exactest knowledge will make it easy for what we say to produce conviction. For argument based on knowledge implies instruction, and there are people whom one cannot instruct.  - Aristotle

    Offline Cantarella

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    « Reply #7 on: January 08, 2014, 07:33:13 PM »
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  • Don't engage in personal attacks. If you want to make a criticism, criticize the post, but not the poster.  Keep it civil and edifying!
    If anyone says that true and natural water is not necessary for baptism and thus twists into some metaphor the words of our Lord Jesus Christ" Unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Spirit" (Jn 3:5) let him be anathema.


    Offline LaramieHirsch

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    « Reply #8 on: January 08, 2014, 09:18:07 PM »
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  • Yeah, dropping inhibitions online tends to make for uncharitable discourse.  

    For example, when I pointed out the following:

    Quote from: Charlemagne
    Maybe Voris should call his ship "The Gravy Boat" during his next Lenten cruise.


    I was greeted with this:

    Quote from: Charlemagne
    Yeah, I give a flying flip what you think. Shouldn't you be working on your next installment for the "esteemed" Hirsch Files? I'm sure both of your readers are eagerly awaiting your latest tripe.



    This is a prime example of someone on the internet who fails to discuss an idea, and instead attacks the man.  

    I think last year's attacks on ggreg were also pretty bad.  And I did not read all of the dialogue in regards to JayneK, but I'm sure some of it consisted of a lot of low blows.  

    Such tearing down is speech without love.  
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    Before some audiences not even the possession of the exactest knowledge will make it easy for what we say to produce conviction. For argument based on knowledge implies instruction, and there are people whom one cannot instruct.  - Aristotle

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    « Reply #9 on: January 08, 2014, 09:25:41 PM »
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  • Give it up, Hirsch. You're probably the most notorious poster on this forum when it comes to attacking others. Or was it someone else who stated that sedevacantists hate the Church and consider her a whore? For you to come to this thread and type your sanctimonious BS is nearly beyond belief - until one realizes it's you who's typing it.
    "This principle is most certain: The non-Christian cannot in any way be Pope. The reason for this is that he cannot be head of what he is not a member. Now, he who is not a Christian is not a member of the Church, and a manifest heretic is not a Christian, as is clearly taught by St. Cyprian, St. Athanasius, St. Augustine, St. Jerome, and others. Therefore, the manifest heretic cannot be Pope." -- St. Robert Bellarmine

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    « Reply #10 on: January 08, 2014, 09:49:42 PM »
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  • Quote from: Charlemagne
    Give it up, Hirsch. You're probably the most notorious poster on this forum when it comes to attacking others. Or was it someone else who stated that sedevacantists hate the Church and consider her a whore? For you to come to this thread and type your sanctimonious BS is nearly beyond belief - until one realizes it's you who's typing it.

    In my time on Catholic forums, I've "attacked" three people that come to mind:

    -Scipio
    -DrBombay
    -maybe Tele

    I called someone else an ass, but I can't remember who it was.  

    In any event, unlike you and others, I have the ability to separate ideas from people, and talk about the idea.  

    I maintain that sedevacantism is schismatic.  I am talking about an idea.  Do you respond to the idea?  No.  You attack the man stating the idea.

    Here's your initial reaction to the idea that sedevacantism is schismatic:
    Quote from: Charlemagne
    ...you espouse a twisted, schizophrenic theology, Laramie - and you further prove that anyone with a keyboard and internet connection can have a blog.


    And here's an example of your lack of charity in response to an idea (that people leaving the Church is an emotional reaction):
    Quote from: Charlemagne
    Quote from: LaramieHirsch
    I think a lot of people leaving the Church has been an emotional reaction.


    Why Matthew continues to tolerate this garbage from you is beyond me.


    Uncharitable posts such as yours are rather abundant.  And all of this uncharitable un-Christian online behavior has been a great demonstration to people on the outside of Cathinfo looking in.  Who would want to talk to such people?


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    Before some audiences not even the possession of the exactest knowledge will make it easy for what we say to produce conviction. For argument based on knowledge implies instruction, and there are people whom one cannot instruct.  - Aristotle


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    « Reply #11 on: January 08, 2014, 10:21:07 PM »
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    Give it up, Hirsch. You're probably the most notorious poster on this forum when it comes to attacking others. Or was it someone else who stated that sedevacantists hate the Church and consider her a whore? For you to come to this thread and type your sanctimonious BS is nearly beyond belief - until one realizes it's you who's typing it.

    In my time on Catholic forums, I've "attacked" three people that come to mind:

    -Scipio
    -DrBombay
    -maybe Tele

    I called someone else an ass, but I can't remember who it was.  

    In any event, unlike you and others, I have the ability to separate ideas from people, and talk about the idea.  

    I maintain that sedevacantism is schismatic.  I am talking about an idea.  Do you respond to the idea?  No.  You attack the man stating the idea.

    Here's your initial reaction to the idea that sedevacantism is schismatic:
    Quote from: Charlemagne
    ...you espouse a twisted, schizophrenic theology, Laramie - and you further prove that anyone with a keyboard and internet connection can have a blog.


    And here's an example of your lack of charity in response to an idea (that people leaving the Church is an emotional reaction):
    Quote from: Charlemagne
    Quote from: LaramieHirsch
    I think a lot of people leaving the Church has been an emotional reaction.


    Why Matthew continues to tolerate this garbage from you is beyond me.


    Uncharitable posts such as yours are rather abundant.  And all of this uncharitable un-Christian online behavior has been a great demonstration to people on the outside of Cathinfo looking in.  Who would want to talk to such people?




    I'm not going to go through every single post that I've entered on the subject, but I've most definitely argued for sedevacantism and against sedeplenism on many occasions. To wit:

    1. You say Francis is the Pope, yes? Then you have no right at all to question any of the things you listed. The NOM was promulgated (sophistries against its proper promulgation notwithstanding) by a putative Pope, Paul VI. On the very first page of the CCC is a quote from another putative Pope, JPII, in which he calls it, "A sure norm for teaching the Faith," heresies and all. Your manmade (New American) Bible? First published in 1970 with the approval of Paul VI. The 1983 Code of Canon Law? Approved by JPII, of course. Since you've joined CI, nearly all you've done is attack sedevacantism. My question to you is, who is your Pope?


    2. It's actually much more difficult for a sedeplenist to defend "recognize and resist" than it is for a sedevacantist to defend his beliefs. It's very easy, on the other hand, to label as schismatics those who believe Francis never even held the office. Many sedeplenists recognize Francis as Pope and then proceed to scrutinize - or simply ignore - every word he says. Pope St. Pius X said of such people, "Therefore, when we love the Pope, there are no discussions regarding what he orders or demands, or up to what point obedience must go, and in what things he is to be obeyed; when we love the Pope, we do not say that he has not spoken clearly enough, almost as if he were forced to repeat to the ear of each one the will clearly expressed so many times not only in person, but with letters and other public docuмents; we do not place his orders in doubt, adding the facile pretext of those unwilling to obey - that it is not the Pope who commands, but those who surround him; we do not limit the field in which he might and must exercise his authority; we do not set above the authority of the Pope that of other persons, however learned, who dissent from the Pope, who, even though learned, are not holy, because whoever is holy cannot dissent from the Pope."

    3. I'm a sedevacantist but I find dogmatic anything, whether it be sedeplenist, resister, or sedevacantist, to be unrealistic and uncharitable. People such as the Dimonds, although they are Catholics, sicken me because they have no charity toward fellow sincere Catholics. I believe there are many still in the NO structure who are good Catholics but live in a type of intraecclesial invincible ignorance. Did I just invent a term? Anyway, God is infinite mercy, so I don't believe it's a matter of being "right" but a matter of one's desire to seek the truth sincerely during the Modernist Crisis and please God. After all, NOT ONE OF US knows with certainty what the truth is, despite dogmatists' claims to the contrary.

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    I don't have the time (borrowing your favorite excuse) to sit here and go through every single post. But to insinuate that all I do is insult you is ridiculous. If you feel insulted by me or anyone else on this forum, it's only because you invite it with your antagonistic posts. Sorry, but people here generally don't like you. Why is that? All one has to do is look at your reputation score. I don't put much stock in such things, but in this case it's very telling. As for charity, I wonder what you'd say to St. Jerome, who certainly didn't confuse the term with "being nice." No one could hurl a good insult like he could.
    "This principle is most certain: The non-Christian cannot in any way be Pope. The reason for this is that he cannot be head of what he is not a member. Now, he who is not a Christian is not a member of the Church, and a manifest heretic is not a Christian, as is clearly taught by St. Cyprian, St. Athanasius, St. Augustine, St. Jerome, and others. Therefore, the manifest heretic cannot be Pope." -- St. Robert Bellarmine

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    « Reply #12 on: January 08, 2014, 10:34:02 PM »
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  • Your three points about sedevacantism are good, and without uncharitable speech.  I wish you said that in the beginning.

    Quote from: Charlemagne
     
    to insinuate that all I do is insult you is ridiculous.


    Insulting me is not "all you do."  I pointed out two examples of uncharitable speech from you, is all.  I generally like reading your posts.

    Quote from: Charlemagne
     
    If you feel insulted by me or anyone else on this forum...


    Insulted?  I am only amused.  I hold no grudges.  I'm hopeful that perhaps these spicy days will be a thing of the past at some point.  

    Quote from: Charlemagne
     
    ... you invite it with your antagonistic posts.


    My posts about sedevacantism have been my conclusions for the time being.  I'm not trying to antagonize, it seems to happen naturally.  Probably because Cathinfo has become a place where the majority is sympathetic to sedevacantism.  Hindsight is 20/20.  

    If TCat/soulguard never invited me to consider what sedevacantism was, the dialogue of this past Fall/Winter would have never happened!  I blame him!   :rolleyes:

    Quote from: Charlemagne
     
    As for charity, I wonder what you'd say to St. Jerome, who certainly didn't confuse the term with "being nice."


    Fine then!  Don't be nice!  I'm sure it's working out well for you and others, though most outsiders scoff at your attitude, from what I've seen.


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    « Reply #13 on: January 08, 2014, 11:13:44 PM »
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  • I'm a proponent of online anonymity (because I don't trust the state, mostly), but regardless, I can assure you that real life identities do not seem to help, or even real-life face-to-face meetings.

    I just complimented Bowler, SJB, and several others on the latest BOD thread because I really do believe that if those men and their families were in each others' company discussing the exact same topic matter, they would get on famously. I've seen far worse real-life discourse, both "online" and "face-to-face", and I find it very discouraging. Some people take things way too personally (and thus the use of smilies!).

    I discovered Fr. Kramer has a few accounts, and I'm not sure they're all 'him". Regardless, people I KNOW to be decent have responded to the accounts they believe are him (and one, apparently, is him) calling him all manner of evil, with their real identities. Part of me thinks, "let 'em cook" (because if it's on their heart, God knows it; they're done for anyway). But the other part thinks, they're fueling a fire, and may be the blind leading the blind.

    Examples (real life ids cut out, of course, as are expletives):

    Quote from: man who hasn't been to Mass ever
    Father Kramer, you are certainly the only priest I know to refer to laity's questions as idiocy. [Bergoglio] is vague in that he doesn't specify which of the numerous (at least five) covenants in the Old Testament he is referring to. Therefore I don't see how this can be without a doubt formal heresy and obviously neither does a single cardinal or bishop in the Catholic Church. ... Clearly you have demonstrated by resorting to calling a sincere seeker's question idiocy, that you lack charity.


    His posts before that certainly "lacked charity," but to say that he's never met a priest that referred to the laity's questions as 'idiocy' tells me this son of Satan is a liar and need to be blocked. Moving on:

    Quote from: nice grandma with pics of her grandkids
    nasty sedevacantist on here! >> watch your language , moron, if the opposite of 'sedevacantist' is to be a devil worshiper like your popes are who perform BLACK masses in vatican and ritualized rape of children (witnessed by Malachi Martin and other priests )- i would chose the first one than to turn into reptilian like yourself a Jєω AND PEDOPHILE Bobby Lawitzke!


    :facepalm: I don't even know what she's saying. I've blocked so many that the conversations are hopelessly non-sensical. But these are supposed to be Catholics. Sure, Fr. K has MDMs, Dimonds, Dimond-like-but-not types, offended SSPX members, enraged NOs, enraged NO priests, enraged Irish, ...enraged real people.

    So to me, CI is sort of a place of peace.  :laugh1: (Again, the mild comments above are those of Catholics.  :facepalm: And carefully curated. Much, much worse has been said.)
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    « Reply #14 on: January 08, 2014, 11:16:42 PM »
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    So to me, CI is sort of a place of peace.  



    Indeed?

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    Please shut up already.


    Meh.  Again, outsiders would say otherwise.
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