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Chore on the first date
« on: Yesterday at 09:22:58 PM »
Hypothetically if I meet with a lady of interest and she spends almost the whole time cleaning my car after being asked is there anything inherently wrong with that in your opinion. 

Not a dirty car.

Ladies, would you clean or do chores for your man of interest.

Offline Matthew

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Re: Chore on the first date
« Reply #1 on: Yesterday at 09:28:02 PM »
Hypothetically if I meet with a lady of interest and she spends almost the whole time cleaning my car after being asked is there anything inherently wrong with that in your opinion.

Not a dirty car.

Ladies, would you clean or do chores for your man of interest.

Hypothetically eh?

You are being oddly specific there.


Offline DirigeNos

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Re: Chore on the first date
« Reply #2 on: Yesterday at 10:10:20 PM »
haha - I'd say she's a keeper!

Offline St Giles

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Re: Chore on the first date
« Reply #3 on: Yesterday at 10:51:16 PM »
I think that's a good test. But that's no guarantee of good intentions.

Re: Chore on the first date
« Reply #4 on: Today at 12:47:56 AM »
No offence, whether the car was dirty or not, that was a weird thing to do. At least personally I don't find it very respectful because 1. I don't like people I hardly know to touch my things 2. by doing that it's almost saying that you're incompetent to stay clean. Especially if it wasn't dirty, then it sounds awfully controlling, intrusive and OCD to me.