What do you do about a widow who deserves charity, only she has personally (and foolishly) taken responsibility for 2 adult children (in their 20's or even 30's), neither of which have any disabilities? Neither child qualifies for SSI (Social Security).
Both of these children have never gone to college or lived away from home. They still live at home with their mother, only now she can't really afford it. They use electricity, water, eat food, and of course require much more living space than a single widow.
How do you give to a worthy cause when that worthy cause has "chained herself" to a very UNworthy cause, a cause which is actually enabling of adults to live a carefree child-life for decades?
What are those children going to do when this older woman dies? We human beings don't live forever on this earth.
Neither child has anything resembling a job that could support even ONE of them, much less a career. They are living off the widow's social security, plus a few "benefactors".
The children are 25 and 35. A "boy" and a "girl".