I was arguing with a middle aged woman about my standards of women. I said, "modest, marriage minded, and thin." She blew a gasket over text and then was invited by a 3rd party to talk on a call-like scenario using our voices. She completely got it and apologized afterward. This is why text is so inefficient. I'm planning on moving 90% of my text conversations to voice after the first couple of minutes if possible due to this recognition. You cannot discern people's motives over text.