Viva Cristo Rey, please rethink your words. Even if, hypothetically, you are right and they are wrong, what does it matter in the end if you hold such resentment toward them in your heart, and are willing to slander those who you see as your enemy? I understand that it is hard, but we must treat each other with the charity that Christ demanded. This applies regardless of who you are speaking to.
I think that you over reacted, because you were embarrassed to have someone be so blunt with you. You may have had an immediate emotional reaction that put you on the defensive, and now you can't back out of it because you've turned a simple plea for clarification into an insult against you and, somehow, against Catholicism. Now you feel like you've been ganged up on. Just try to look past your visceral reaction to this thread, take a step back, and actually think about what you have said, and what others have said to you. I think you'll find that, even if others weren't perfectly charitable with you, you have also acted in a very defensive and emotional manner.
I am not trying to insult you, or insult Our Holy Faith. Neither is anyone else in this thread (or at least, they weren't until they were insulted first). Speaking with others on the internet is difficult, and we all get upset sometimes. But I beg of you, look at things objectively, and at the very least pray for discernment of what you should do about some of the accusations you have needlessly leveled at people in this thread. I'm not sure you understand just how serious it is to make false accusations which could impact another's reputation.
We're all trads here, or we wouldn't be on this board. We all want to get to heaven, we all love Our Lord and Our Blessed Mother, we all have the same goal. There is no need to invent enemies where there are none.