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Offline PenitentWoman

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Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
« on: July 14, 2012, 02:29:35 PM »
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  • http://againstallheresies.blogspot.com/2006/11/marriage-top-ten-list-of-why.html

    I have to laugh about #4.  After wearing a long skirt to work last night I was instantly nicknamed "Blondie Duggar."     :facepalm:
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25


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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #1 on: July 14, 2012, 02:52:55 PM »
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  • 10, 4, and 3 for me

    considering contemplative life vocation anyway
    can't tell if ninja

    or cryptotrad


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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #2 on: July 14, 2012, 02:57:21 PM »
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  •  Yikes, my blondeness is really showing. I did not realize that this was written by a female.  So is she making good points or just being bitter?
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25

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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #3 on: July 14, 2012, 02:57:29 PM »
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    10, 4, and 3 for me

    considering contemplative life vocation anyway


    You admit to #4?
    I thought the men who would admit to looking for #4 -- the "perfect" woman -- would be few and far between.
    "I think that Catholicism, that's as sane as people can get."  - Jordan Peterson

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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #4 on: July 14, 2012, 03:01:03 PM »
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  • You can't find a woman who will homeschool??  It is becoming so popular even among non religious families.

    There is so much available online to get started.
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25


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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #5 on: July 14, 2012, 03:01:28 PM »
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    10, 4, and 3 for me

    considering contemplative life vocation anyway


    You admit to #4?
    I thought the men who would admit to looking for #4 -- the "perfect" woman -- would be few and far between.


    you missed the part of my post which I had edited out

    I figured the humor was a bit much
    can't tell if ninja

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    « Reply #6 on: July 14, 2012, 03:02:05 PM »
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    Yikes, my blondeness is really showing. I did not realize that this was written by a female.  So is she making good points or just being bitter?


    I presume the goal was humor. There's certainly some truth to it, but you can just as easily turn the statements around and apply them all from the ladies' perspective in searching for a potential husband.
    "I think that Catholicism, that's as sane as people can get."  - Jordan Peterson

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    « Reply #7 on: July 14, 2012, 03:03:13 PM »
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    You can't find a woman who will homeschool??  It is becoming so popular even among non religious families.

    There is so much available online to get started.


    cant find a TRAD woman who will also homeschool

    also cant find a TRAD woman

    my original trade would have been teacher, if married trad non-homeschooler id start my own homeschool business
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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #8 on: July 14, 2012, 03:06:55 PM »
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  • I have a lot to learn. I figured all trad  women would be open to homeschooling.
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    Right now all I need is a man to come slay the gigantic, homicidal spider that is dwelling in my shower. I need to get ready.  :cry: :cry: :cry:
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25

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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #9 on: July 14, 2012, 03:08:45 PM »
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  • The major reason is that marriage is a low priority for most modern young women and their parents, including those who are called "trads"

    Until they're desperate.  That comes later.

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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #10 on: July 14, 2012, 03:14:18 PM »
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    I have a lot to learn. I figured all trad  women would be open to homeschooling.
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    Right now all I need is a man to come slay the gigantic, homicidal spider that is dwelling in my shower. I need to get ready.  :cry: :cry: :cry:


    was saying that i cant find any trad women at all

    id get your spider it but would be unseemly for a man to go to a lady's shower unchaperoned
    can't tell if ninja

    or cryptotrad


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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #11 on: July 14, 2012, 03:27:02 PM »
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    I have a lot to learn. I figured all trad  women would be open to homeschooling.
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    Right now all I need is a man to come slay the gigantic, homicidal spider that is dwelling in my shower. I need to get ready.  :cry: :cry: :cry:


    was saying that i cant find any trad women at all

    id get your spider it but would be unseemly for a man to go to a lady's shower unchaperoned



    Haha. Well I'm out of luck unless the rubber duck steps up to the plate.  :dwarf:
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25

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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #12 on: July 14, 2012, 03:29:15 PM »
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    I have a lot to learn. I figured all trad  women would be open to homeschooling.
    ,
    Right now all I need is a man to come slay the gigantic, homicidal spider that is dwelling in my shower. I need to get ready.  :cry: :cry: :cry:


    was saying that i cant find any trad women at all

    id get your spider it but would be unseemly for a man to go to a lady's shower unchaperoned



    Haha. Well I'm out of luck unless the rubber duck steps up to the plate.  :dwarf:


    save water

    shower with friend

    not scandalous if spider is aslo in shower
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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #13 on: July 14, 2012, 03:34:41 PM »
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    The major reason is that marriage is a low priority for most modern young women and their parents, including those who are called "trads"

    Until they're desperate.  That comes later.


    Interesting. I don't really understand that. If you're raised traditional and know you'll marry and become a mother, what is prioritized above that? Develop a career you'll know you will have to leave? s it just that they've been so sheltered that they want to break loose? Like the Amish on Rumspringa?
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25

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    Blog post about why Trad men dont marry
    « Reply #14 on: July 14, 2012, 09:48:17 PM »
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    I have a lot to learn. I figured all trad  women would be open to homeschooling.
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    Right now all I need is a man to come slay the gigantic, homicidal spider that is dwelling in my shower. I need to get ready.  :cry: :cry: :cry:


    I'll defend you from the heathen horde!

     :light-saber:

    Uh... did you say spider?

    Never mind.

     :scared2: