I think we have a bunch of self-righteous busybodies, mostly women, who imprudently want to get involved with some of the more difficult moral questions, (an especially treacherous proposition given the apparent lack of authority during the Church’s Crisis) moral questions, which are FAR above their pay grade.
But by all means, if you want to be judged as a head of household (or head of Christ’s flock) in such a perilous time as this, then I’m sure Jesus will be accommodating of your ambitions on Judgement Day.