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LM · « **Reply #705 on:** March 31, 2011, 11:55:06 PM »

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You are breeding bitterness, resentment, and I will say hate. It has shown itself in your posts. If you do not get some spiritual help, you can well send yourself into darkness.

The people who have shown hatred towards me can start showing some decency. Because I know none of the people attacking me on this thread have one ounce of genuine concern for me - if I were saying nothing they wouldn't care what happened to me. They just want me to go away. Well, it's in their power. This thread will end when people stop attacking me in it.

My "vendetta" as you call it (telling the truth about the way I was unjustly treated) will end when apologies are received and reparations are made for the injury done me.

Get some help.

Telesphorus · « **Reply #706 on:** March 31, 2011, 11:56:29 PM »

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You are breeding bitterness, resentment, and I will say hate. It has shown itself in your posts. If you do not get some spiritual help, you can well send yourself into darkness.

The people who have shown hatred towards me can start showing some decency. Because I know none of the people attacking me on this thread have one ounce of genuine concern for me - if I were saying nothing they wouldn't care what happened to me. They just want me to go away. Well, it's in their power. This thread will end when people stop attacking me in it.

My "vendetta" as you call it (telling the truth about the way I was unjustly treated) will end when apologies are received and reparations are made for the injury done me.

Get some help.

The people attacking my mental state as you just did want to brand me a "freak" - they don't care about justice or what happened. They want to compound the injustice because of their malice.

Your patronizing attitude is disgusting. As i said before, if you had any genuine concern for me, you wouldn't call it disordered to like a younger woman - you wouldn't keep coming back to this thread.

LM · « **Reply #707 on:** March 31, 2011, 11:58:05 PM »

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You are breeding bitterness, resentment, and I will say hate. It has shown itself in your posts. If you do not get some spiritual help, you can well send yourself into darkness.

The people who have shown hatred towards me can start showing some decency. Because I know none of the people attacking me on this thread have one ounce of genuine concern for me - if I were saying nothing they wouldn't care what happened to me. They just want me to go away. Well, it's in their power. This thread will end when people stop attacking me in it.

My "vendetta" as you call it (telling the truth about the way I was unjustly treated) will end when apologies are received and reparations are made for the injury done me.

Get some help.

Your patronizing attitude is disgusting. As i said before, if you had any genuine concern for me, you wouldn't call it disordered to like a younger woman - you wouldn't keep coming back to this thread.

If you want disgusting, go read your own posts.

Telesphorus · « **Reply #708 on:** March 31, 2011, 11:59:40 PM »

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If you want disgusting, go read your own posts.

Which one? Hmmm?

The ones where I said I liked young women? You seemed to find that disgusting. Well, that's your problem, not mine.

As I've said before, these people who have wronged me, including YOU - should apologize.

If they don't they have only themselves to blame.

LM · « **Reply #709 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:02:04 AM »

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If you want disgusting, go read your own posts.

Which one? Hmmm?

The ones where I said I liked young women? You seemed to find that disgusting. Well, that's your problem, not mine.

As I've said before, these people who have wronged me, including YOU - should apologize.

If they don't they have only themselves to blame.

You mean ones, plural. The "victim" card must surely be well worn.

Telesphorus · « **Reply #710 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:04:06 AM »

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You mean ones, plural. The "victim" card must surely be well worn.

You called me "disordered" - for liking a young woman?

You have wronged me. You need to apologize.

MaterDominici · « **Reply #711 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:04:27 AM »

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"I'm not afraid of them, but they'd better be afraid of me?"

That doesn't sound like someone high on humility...

Matthew - treacherous, dishonest priests had better not think they can act with impunity.

Tele, presuming neither the priest or the girl's father is going to call you out of the blue and apologize, how to you intend to find peace regarding this situation?

Telesphorus · « **Reply #712 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:05:23 AM »

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Tele, presuming neither the priest or the girl's father is going to call you out of the blue and apologize, how to you intend to find peace regarding this situation?

I will try to go on with my life, but I'm never going to stop exposing the SSPX for the way it treats people, until I'm convinced they've taken steps to change.

As for this thread, it will end when people stop obliging me to defend myself.

LM · « **Reply #713 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:19:05 AM »

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You mean ones, plural. The "victim" card must surely be well worn.

You called me "disordered" - for liking a young woman?

You have wronged me. You need to apologize.

No, I called you dis-ordered for making women older than the "young beautiful girls" as being "past their prime". I called you dis-ordered for making it "almost a sin" to not marry a young beautiful girl. I called you dis-ordered for your belief that if your "young beautiful girl" bride ages/looses her beauty, it will be a "burden" you will have to carry.

Telesphorus · « **Reply #714 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:28:26 AM »

Someone first responded to my post with my username, then deleted the response and my post.

MaterDominici · « **Reply #715 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:29:17 AM »

WHOOPS!

I'm sorry, Tele, I accidentally edited your last post out of existence.

You -->

<-- Me

I'm sorry, I meant to quote it, not edit it.

Telesphorus · « **Reply #716 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:30:12 AM »

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WHOOPS!

I'm sorry, Tele, I accidentally edited your last post out of existence.

You --> <-- Me

If it's "disordered" to notice that the girls I knew in high school are "not in the bloom of youth" - then every man in the world is disordered.

As I said, I myself am certainly not in the bloom of youth - with a lot of gray hair (in some ways its more noticeable than my mother's gray) - why am I obliged to think women close to my age are as fresh and as beautiful as younger women?

MaterDominici · « **Reply #717 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:37:56 AM »

I'll stick to the REPLY button this time.

I just wanted to know why you think having an older spouse is a burden. I don't necessarily disagree, your statement was too vague for me to either agree or disagree.

Telesphorus · « **Reply #718 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:41:31 AM »

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I'll stick to the REPLY button this time.

I just wanted to know why you think having an older spouse is a burden.

Why do many middle aged men leave the women they married when they were young? I know the father of a nun who did just that - her father got an annulment and remarried - and he supported the daughter's decision to enter the convent while the mother was bitterly opposed.

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don't necessarily disagree, your statement was too vague for me to either agree or disagree.

Why do women worry about losing their looks?

Why do women my age get worried about finding a husband while they still can?

As I've said before - I would have married a woman my age or older than me without hesitation when I was younger.

Why shouldn't a man want to have the best years of his wife's life?

MaterDominici · « **Reply #719 on:** April 01, 2011, 12:49:29 AM »

With that reasoning -- and I totally disagree with your reasoning -- why would you presume any young lady would be willing to marry an older man?