You went and posted your mess on Facebook, and on two public discussion boards, and you have the nerve to whine.
No, you are the one whining about me giving
my name, face and general location - because it supposedly makes the people I haven't named look bad.
Meanwhile, all the information about me is collected onto one page - anyone who was genuinely concerned about the reputation of the people I'm talking about wouldn't do that. So cut the hypocrisy - you want to make it look like I'm slandering others for telling the truth, when I haven't named them, because I'm willing to put my name, face, and location behind what I said? You're a hypocrite to say that.
The people who were interested in protecting their reputations shouldn't have started attacking mine, when they did that they obliged me to defend myself. If they were honest, decent people, they wouldn't have anything to worry about. They're harvesting the bitter fruits of their dishonesty.
As for facebook only people who already knew the story and the people involved would be able to figure out what I posted was about.
When you blacken someone's reputation and have them kicked out of church for the sake of your macho pride, there's a price to be paid - that the person you're victimizing will tell the truth about what happened, and demonstrate that you're lying about him.