I've said many times, with regards to so-called "Amber Alerts":
Leave me out of your divorce/child custody disputes! Work it out among yourselves. Leave the public out of it.
Well, I need to add one to this:
Leave me out of your relationship dramas as well.
Here is another abuse of the Amber Alert system:
This is CLEARLY a case of a boyfriend/girlfriend situation; one of the parents doesn't approve, yadda yadda. But I would bet money the "kidnapping" was consensual on the part of the 14 year old girl. And I'd also bet large sums of money that MUCH HYPOCRISY could be found, if it were looked for.
Look. Girls are taught in cartoons, movies, social media, and family to start having boyfriends in grade school (under age 12). They dress provocatively and act like precocious little adults from age 5. They are taught sex ed in public schools, given uncensored access to corrupted peers AND the Internet/social media. There is very little religion in their lives AND the lives of their parents. So they by default accept the prevailing American culture/beliefs. And I'll tell you about those beliefs: Evolution, we're just animals, you only live once, do what feels good, etc. In short, a pagan lifestyle. Even those who attend Protestant services on Sunday are still, in daily life, basically neo-pagan.
They teach kids about masturbation in public school now. And 99.9% of Internet and media has a single, strong opinion about virginity: it's a curse.
And you (parents of this 14 year old girl) are telling me you're SHOCKED that a 14 year old young lady found herself a young man and wants to be with him? Give me a break. A 14 year old girl is not a CHILD. And unless some middle-aged man "kidnapped" her, I'm guessing it was consensual on her part. She found him online (or IRL) and decided to get involved with him. It's that simple. What did you expect, really?
The bereaved parents of Amber must be spinning in their graves at abuses like this. It is an insult to every parent who ever had a child kidnapped by a stranger -- not knowing what horrors (before and up to death) were happening to their child.
This story is as old as the hills. Romeo and Juliet. There's the Oldie "I think we're alone now". In the 80's Rod Stewart sang, "Young hearts be free tonight". And I'm sure there are plenty other examples in books, movies, and songs about young people hooking up, despite the dictates of Reason, parents, or those around them.