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Offline Ladislaus

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Re: Allow autists on the internet?
« Reply #60 on: December 19, 2025, 10:44:07 AM »
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  • Are you sure the post is an attack on someone? The OP said they had some problems within their family with autistic people. No idea why someone would pretend to be female on here if they’re male. Perhaps they don’t want anyone to guess who they are in real life… if part of a large TLM parish for example..??

    Well, it's undoubtedly the same individual ... due to a similar, very negative and hostile tone, nearly identical writing style, and this borderline-obsession with autism.  Whether this thread was intended to be an attack, I do think that it's quite possible, or else it's certainly at leat part of why this thread was started, to go after me ... since you'll notice other comments he made on this thread here, not directly related to autism, that were similar to the attacks he me against me there.  At the end of the day, I am not bothered by what people think ... since only what God knows and thinks ultimately matters ... except to the extent that it could be a reflection of something I need to correct or work on.  Sometimes the impression people get is a tad artificial, since my writing style is also very terse, to the point, very direct ... and so people sometimes read hostility into it, where I honestly have none.  I do get very hostile to BAD IDEAS, to ERROR, to TERRIBLE ARGUMENTS, to LOGICAL FALLACIES ... but it's never personal.  Sean Johnson and I used to go at it like nobody's business, but we're very friendly otherwise, and neither of us has any hard feelings.

    Since this girlytrad was undoubtedy also that other individual, there was just a very disturbing level of spite, contempt, lack of any compassion or empathy in the individual's posts, both on that thread, and on this one ... a huge reason that I realized that there's no way this is a woman.  Yes, women can also get "catty", but not woman would just be this cold and, honestly, "mean" and lacking in empathy.

    Offline Michaelknoxville

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #61 on: December 19, 2025, 10:48:56 AM »
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  • As part of banning online anonymity, everyone should be not only given an IQ test but a DNA test to determine their biological sex and ethnic background prior to issuing their internet license.  And that information should be in the public domain.  And internet licenses should be cost prohibitive to weed out those more likely to be "abnormal" such as the poor.

    I also think Congress should lead this effort by holding hearings to define what is normal and what isn't.  Of course, IQ and ethnic identity should be part of defining normal.  But Thomas Massie would have to be excluded since he has Aspies.
    That’s the most Americanism I’ve ever read and some how the least American thing I’ve ever read in one short paragraph 😵‍💫🤦🏼‍♂️ those who give the liscence can take the liscence just as easily, if you think you will be allowed to keep one your in a dream world! White ✅ trad ✅ straight ✅ = doomed hahaha. You nut! You’re a fascist, bigot, racist, homophobe, antisemite,  on and on and on and on. Why do people trust the government to have any power let alone to police the internet? Keep thinking putting more power in the government’s hand will come out favorably to us. Good luck. Drivers license, car registration, gun liscence, gun registration, let’s just throw in internet liscence, computer registration and open up a whole new system of control to bite us! Sounds great! Remember “ driving your car is a privilege, not a right!” Apparently sharing and receiving information is too! 


    Offline Ladislaus

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #62 on: December 19, 2025, 10:49:35 AM »
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  • Not all women have empathy. Maybe she’s got a cluster B personality disorder. Psychopaths don’t have empathy I’m told.

    Oh, they all have some, and even if their emotions have been worn down, and that natural tendency manifests itself at least as vestiges in their writing style.  It affects their thought process, their manner of expression, in a habitual way.  There's no way a woman could have posted the OP, even IF psycopathic ... just due tot he writing style, tone, thought process.  There would be some hints of the fact of her being a woman.

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #63 on: December 19, 2025, 10:57:45 AM »
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  • No, I will not reveal my method(s) so as to allow future violators to refine their tactics.

    You will just have to wonder. Cope and seethe.
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    Offline Justinian

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #64 on: December 19, 2025, 11:00:25 AM »
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  • No, I will not reveal my method(s) so as to allow future violators to refine their tactics.

    You will just have to wonder. Cope and seethe.
    Fair enough. If you’re certain girlytrad is a man though your own methods. I thought it was just a suspicion based on her (his?) writing style. Of course I want to know your methods of discovering s/he was lying about his/her gender…!!!😀😀😀


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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #65 on: December 19, 2025, 11:03:16 AM »
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  • Are you sure the post is an attack on someone? The OP said they had some problems within their family with autistic people. No idea why someone would pretend to be female on here if they’re male. Perhaps they don’t want anyone to guess who they are in real life… if part of a large TLM parish for example..??
    December 17th. An anonymous poster, in another post, after arguing with Ladislaus, ended up accusing him of being autistic. The arguing continued until yesterday, with another anonymous poster, probably the same one, posting AI posts about autism. Yesterday, girlytrad opened a post about not allowing autistic people to be on the internet because their comments can scandalize normal people. I can see the obvious correlation between the two events.

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #66 on: December 19, 2025, 11:05:00 AM »
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  • Fair enough. If you’re certain girlytrad is a man though your own methods. I thought it was just a suspicion based on her (his?) writing style. Of course I want to know your methods of discovering s/he was lying about his/her gender…!!!😀😀😀

    Why? Are you in the same boat or something? Are you masquerading as a female as well?

    By the way, there is a difference between "having a feeling" and having actual evidence. But just because I have no evidence against a given person doesn't mean they are completely "clean" and off the hook, or off my radar.

    I like to give Catholics the benefit of the doubt, because why would I accuse someone of LYING without a good reason?
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    Offline Justinian

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #67 on: December 19, 2025, 11:17:54 AM »
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  • Why? Are you in the same boat or something? Are you masquerading as a female as well?

    By the way, there is a difference between "having a feeling" and having actual evidence. But just because I have no evidence against a given person doesn't mean they are completely "clean" and off the hook, or off my radar.

    I like to give Catholics the benefit of the doubt, because why would I accuse someone of LYING without a good reason?
    No of course not why would I pretend to be female? I just wondered why this girlytrad person was suspected of being male just because s/he sounded lacking in empathy. But you said you had other evidence so fair enough! 


    Offline Mark 79

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #68 on: December 19, 2025, 02:05:34 PM »
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  • Ok yes yes. This is true. However not all of us have access to these treatments, as they can be expensive. And some people are too far gone for it to make a real difference.
    And you have studied the treatment of autism sufficiently to back up your "too far gone" claim, right?

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #69 on: Yesterday at 05:35:16 PM »
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  • For what it's worth, as an autistic adult, I don't think I should be banned from the internet. 

    Offline Justinian

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #70 on: Yesterday at 05:40:38 PM »
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  • For what it's worth, as an autistic adult, I don't think I should be banned from the internet.
    Of course you shouldn’t be banned from the internet.

    This thread was started by ‘girlytrad’ who has now been banned by Matthew the owner because he says he has evidence she (he) has lied about her gender so I guess he thinks she’s a troll. 

    I took her question seriously and thought she had some problems with someone she knew causing arguments online.

    Unless someone is doing something deeply immoral or illegal we have to just accept people will write insane things online and we just need to ignore and not waste time arguing. I need to take my own advice. Because I have a tendency to get into pointless arguments.


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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #71 on: Yesterday at 06:40:23 PM »
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  •  Cope and seethe.
    I love it when other generations use Gen Z slang, it cracks me up :jester:.
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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #72 on: Today at 04:23:17 PM »
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  • I love it when other generations use Gen Z slang, it cracks me up :jester:.
    Haha yes. Though cope and seethe is self explanatory… comes from telling someone to just cope with it and seethe is an old fashioned word for anger. There’s nothing new under the sun. Do the American (assuming you’re American?) Gen Alpha say  this ridiculous 6,7 thing and also refer to other girls as ‘slay queens’ as some kind of compliment? This is said a lot in UK.  My children home educated so haven’t picked this up so much.

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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #73 on: Today at 04:55:14 PM »
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  • Haha yes. Though cope and seethe is self explanatory… comes from telling someone to just cope with it and seethe is an old fashioned word for anger. There’s nothing new under the sun. Do the American (assuming you’re American?) Gen Alpha say  this ridiculous 6,7 thing and also refer to other girls as ‘slay queens’ as some kind of compliment? This is said a lot in UK.  My children home educated so haven’t picked this up so much.
    Oh yes, yes they do.  I hear from the kids it’s just nonsense purposely meant to confuse adults.  It worked :jester:
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    Re: Allow autists on the internet?
    « Reply #74 on: Today at 06:09:47 PM »
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  • Oh yes, yes they do.  I hear from the kids it’s just nonsense purposely meant to confuse adults.  It worked :jester:
    It worked to confuse me!! Sometimes i just say other random numbers back in response to 6,7 just to annoy them 😆