I'm not even sure how to respond to this? Do you think high functioning autistic people can't be calm, balanced and intelligent? As for low functioning, these people can barely use the internet on their own.
I once saw a meme that women only like non-autistic men, maybe it's true
Austists are sick. You can't undo it. It is a permanent, chronic condition.
They will always have an imbalance there underneath their acquired habits.
You shouldnt confuse that with someone who is simply intelligent. This is the problem with discussion about autism by Gen Z ers. Its that it has become far too normalized, that they seem to have forgotten that autism is not just, not cool, but a sickness.
These people need limitations on their behavior by their families for their own good. Because they can harm themselves. They need care, even if they are high functioning ones.
What I think you don't understand is that autists can appear normal because they can function well with certain parts of their brain. Like with computers and math etc. etc. But life is more than that. Our behavior and its morality is judged by far more than our intellectual achievements. It is also about our interactions with other people.