True. No one has the authority to make any choice on the poll a dogma. Sometimes it feels like you try to make the choice of the "resistance" the only correct choice. If that wasn't your mission, then I apologize for misunderstanding.
No it is the only correct choice for Mass attendance.
But the point is that I cannot act in such a way that I can cite Church councils to prove it, like I could with someone trying to say the Blessed Mother is not a virgin or something like that. So discretion is required.
It also means that God will be merciful to SSPXers, novus ordo people, and even Thucists (believe it or not), when they die. They all think they are being Catholic and that's more important than rejecting the Church entirely.
However when it comes to intelligent discernment, which, dont forget is a grace, no one has the right to refuse that grace from God. The prudent thing to do is avoid dangers to the faith, which includes avoiding these sketchy places, and not pretending like it's fine to attend modernist places of worship or receive potentially invalid Sacraments. Dont forget Our Lord died on the cross to give us these Sacraments.
Your faith is the greatest gift you have and you must cherish it with your life, and not complain you have to drive 6 hours to a resistance Mass.
When you wake up from that sleep you cannot go back to bed. Sorry it doesnt work that way. Hand to the plough and no turning back.