Hi, everyone,
I need your input on something. I have a close friend who is very dear to me and so I take caution in watching out for his soul. In my humble opinion, I believe that he is too liberal in the touch which he gives to women at times. For example, he has a sister-in-law whom he tries to be a big brother to. But, I think he goes too far since we mortal human beings are easily aroused by touch. I doubt that he evil intentions. But, he will often hug her or put one arm around her sacrum, peck her on the head, hold her hand for extended periods of time if she is confessing that she is going through hardship, and even says that he loves her. Of course, he means that in a spiritual way.
Correct me if I am wrong, but his behavior does not seem right to me. It seems like he is providing an occasion of sin to such women especially since he is good looking as well. Is there anything in moral theology or in the teachings of holy saints which recommends modesty in terms of touch? Thank you!