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Offline Angel9

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A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
« on: May 18, 2013, 04:18:51 PM »
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  • Do you think that girls should wear T-shirts, or do you think that makes them look manly? :boxer:






    (please don't give me a thumbs down, I am just asking a innocent question)  


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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #1 on: May 18, 2013, 04:23:37 PM »
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  • Under their clothes?

    I only wear a t-shirt as an undershirt.

    Women should not generally wear t-shirts.  Almost never, I think.

    Maybe if they're painting on a hot day.


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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #2 on: May 18, 2013, 04:30:39 PM »
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  • Do you mean those Hanes 3-packs of white T-shirts? Those are kind of thin, usually.

    If you're talking about more solid ones, that come in various colors, sometimes with designs or print on them, and are usually a bit more baggy, I don't see what anyone could object to. (unless they were old & thin, too tight, or had vulgar messages on them)

    A loose-fitting T-shirt is quite modest. It would go well with a denim or other skirt, especially if you're going to be working/playing outdoors.

    Not every woman can find (or make) affordable dresses. Skirt/shirt combination is much more reasonable to come by. Especially depending on the woman's figure.

    We can't expect women to wear their nice "Sunday" clothes 24/7. That is simply too expensive.

    Unless the man is wealthy, of course. You know -- someone who aspires to live in the city, make 6 figures, etc. We have someone like that on CathInfo, and he doesn't get along very well with Telesphorus.
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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #3 on: May 18, 2013, 04:32:13 PM »
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  • Are you speaking of men's underwear type "T" shirts or those colored big shirts, some might have a printed picture or text on the front or back.

    My opinion is this:  since my husband passed away, I find myself wearing his underwear "T"s to bed, they are very comfy.  

    The other ones if they are big enough I modest enough for women.  It is the culture of the day.  
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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #4 on: May 18, 2013, 04:35:12 PM »
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  • We can ask women to be modest -- to conceal rather than reveal, don't be too vain, etc.

    What we CAN'T reasonably ask is for them to be some kind of objects for our visual pleasure and amusement -- to flit around in nothing but frilly dresses because that's what "turns us on" or what we have a "thing" for.

    Do you know that many women object to MODEST CLOTHING for that very reason? They confuse men asking for modesty with men trying to put them on a pedestal, or wanting women to conform to their own "hang-ups".

    Which is why we should always distinguish. It's not about what I/we "prefer", it's not about our "hang-ups", it's about being objectively modest and not leading men into sin.
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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #5 on: May 18, 2013, 04:39:07 PM »
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  • Clothes are so expensive that women need to dress in t-shirts?

    that is ridiculous.

    T-shirts are sloven and immodest.

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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #6 on: May 18, 2013, 04:41:14 PM »
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  • There's nothing traditional about defending women wearing t-shirts and saying that it requires being well-off to wear more than a t-shirt!

    Some people are clearly becoming argumentative for the sake of scoring points.

    Did women typically go about in t-shirts before Vatican II, regardless of their level of income?

    Printed t-shirts are some of the tackiest clothes a person (any person) can wear.

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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #7 on: May 18, 2013, 04:45:17 PM »
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  • Wow, the temptation to please women is just overwhelming for some people.

    Would I want a wife or girlfriend or daughter to go about in a t-shirt?

    What kind of Catholic would prefer that?


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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #8 on: May 18, 2013, 04:48:28 PM »
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  • The Catholic Church doesn't dictate a particular fashion for women.

    All it does dictate is MORALITY and the standards of MODESTY.

    Women have plenty of leeway to come up with various patterns of fabric that will do the job (modesty).

    Women don't have to look like Little House on the Prairie, or any other century. But they DO have to look modest, even if that means standing out like a sore thumb.

    You can throw accusations around all day long, but you're not talking with a liberal. I believe women must always wear skirts or dresses, even at home. Pants and shorts are an abomination for women (unless they wear them under said skirt/dress)

    I don't know what exactly you have a problem with regarding T-shirts.

    You say T-shirts are immodest. Pray tell why? They don't show off any of the female form.

    I think we're talking about two different things.

    Have I banned too many liberals from CathInfo? -- you seem to be itching to have a few around to argue with. You're even starting to snipe at your own side.
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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #9 on: May 18, 2013, 04:50:23 PM »
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  • I'd like to know who believes that women should wear skirts but they should also wear t-shirts with those skirts?

    Nothing could be more ridiculous than the petulance of woman-pleasers.

    They will gladly contradict themselves to appear more "easy-going" - and accuse others of "hang-ups"

    It's not a hang-up to say women shouldn't wear t-shirts, anymore than it's a hang-up shouldn't wear pants.

    It's just common sense.

    Some people are losing it.

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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #10 on: May 18, 2013, 04:55:06 PM »
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  • Quote from: Matthew
    The Catholic Church doesn't dictate a particular fashion for women.


    So then, you accept jeans and a t-shirt for women?

    I could say the same thing about opposition to pants.

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    All it does dictate is MORALITY and the standards of MODESTY.


    Common sense comes under prudence.  If you don't have the common sense of our ancestors who didn't think it fitting for women to wear t-shirts, I can't help you.

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    Women have plenty of leeway to come up with various patterns of fabric that will do the job (modesty).

    Women don't have to look like Little House on the Prairie, or any other century.


    Straw man.

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    But they DO have to look modest, even if that means standing out like a sore thumb.

    You can throw accusations around all day long, but you're not talking with a liberal.

    I believe women must always wear skirts or dresses, even at home. Pants and shorts are an abomination for women (unless they wear them under said skirt/dress)


    So much for the Church not dictating fashion then.

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    I don't know what exactly you have a problem with regarding T-shirts.

    You say T-shirts are immodest. Pray tell why? They don't show off any of the female form.


    They give the impression of being sloven.  

    Of course they show off the female form to some degree.  They are thin hanging materials.

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    I think we're talking about two different things.


    A buxom woman wearing a t-shirt is not being modest.


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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #11 on: May 18, 2013, 04:57:34 PM »
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  • No it's not common sense.

    Pants accentuate certain parts of the female form; t-shirts only conceal.

    If I have to explain it to you, you're too far gone.

    At any rate, it's very believable/likely that you have extreme/ivory tower views on how a woman should dress.

    Do you have a single Trad woman in your life who has navigated the maze of 2013 to figure out what she will wear on a daily basis?

    A girlfriend? wife? trad sister?

    Anyhow, we're obviously going to disagree on this issue. You're going to call me a woman-panderer, and I'm going to call you an unrealistic ivory-tower dweller who imposes his own hang-ups on female dressing morality.

    We could argue all day, but I have work to do. You know, PAID work, like some guys have.
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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #12 on: May 18, 2013, 04:57:50 PM »
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  • No one here is going to be defending men wearing "wife-beaters" and only a few would even defend men wearing t-shirts.

    Is a big muscular man in a t-shirt being modest?  Not really.

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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #13 on: May 18, 2013, 04:59:34 PM »
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    Pants accentuate certain parts of the female form; t-shirts only conceal.


    So if a woman gets caught in the rain in a t-shirt, the t-shirt conceals her adequately compared to other clothes?

    Give me a break.

    You've been caught being argumentative.  

    Did women typicallywear t-shirts in the 1950s?

    Yet I hear this passionate defense of sloven dress.

    It's silly.

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    A question about girls wearing T-shirts?
    « Reply #14 on: May 18, 2013, 05:01:31 PM »
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  • Tele, I know, I know, women should always wear a full-length Burqa. Anything less gives away the full female form, leaving nothing to the imagination.

    If you think a loose-fitting, solid color T-shirt gives away the female form, then MAN you need to get married. Like yesterday.

    When I hear stuff like this, I really feel sorry for you.

    Like my momma always said... never argue with a c... Telesphorus.
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