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Offline Telesphorus

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18 year olds are not grown up
« Reply #75 on: April 01, 2011, 01:22:27 PM »
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    Forgive me, but I am new to trad circles.  From what I am seeing, the chapels are not over flowing with people.  When the weather is good, we have about 100 people.  Of those, I can count the young women on my hands.  And I will tell you that the ones I know are very much influenced by the world.  Last Sunday, I watched my husband close his eyes to avoid looking at a young 18-20 year old whose skirt was way too high and whose blouse was way too low.  They wear stylish clothes and stilletos to Mass.  These young women are not that much different from the young women I knew at NO.
    But maybe that's just my experience.

    I've heard Father's sermons when he has used examples of the teenagers from the school.   They have cell phones just like all the other teens and live in the same culture we do.  It is hard to not be influenced in some way by the modern culture.



    What kind of chapel is it?  


    SSPX


    It was a lot different here.

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    « Reply #76 on: April 01, 2011, 01:24:58 PM »
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  • What you describe, CathMom, sounds like an Indult parish (and I've been at one; I'm not just passing along a rumor)

    The chapel I attend has no immodesty as you describe; though a lot of adults have cell phones.

    You can't expect people to be un-influenced by the modern world we live in (unfortunately) but in general, SSPX Catholics are more awake than most.

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    « Reply #77 on: April 01, 2011, 02:41:50 PM »
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    What you describe, CathMom, sounds like an Indult parish (and I've been at one; I'm not just passing along a rumor)

    The chapel I attend has no immodesty as you describe; though a lot of adults have cell phones.

    You can't expect people to be un-influenced by the modern world we live in (unfortunately) but in general, SSPX Catholics are more awake than most.

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    What you describe has been my general understanding of trad Catholics.  I have been surprised sometimes by a few of the young girls.  Generally speaking, though, most people are very modest.  But there is group of young girls that seem to be into fashion and their skirts are often too high and their blouses too low.  Our chapel is SSPX but it is upstate NY, so I guess that makes a difference.  

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    « Reply #78 on: April 01, 2011, 02:52:11 PM »
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  • Yes, I believe it does.

    For that matter, my wife's (N.O.) home parish in the small rural town she grew up was pretty conservative. And the nearby town where she moved after college -- also pretty conservative. There is a difference between Texas and California.

    I think there are differences from region to region -- based on the local culture and people.
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    « Reply #79 on: April 01, 2011, 03:12:43 PM »
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  • There are differences within CA -- many of them.
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