Actually, TG20, I think I can bring a little clarity (for once) to a discussion.
Having worked with youth from elementary-school age to young adults, I can tell you for certain that the teen and young adult crowd these days (in this latest generation, born in the late 80s and early 90s) is motivated by ONE major thing:
BENEFIT.
As in, "what immediate, quantifiable benefit will X relationship/interaction/purchase/etc hold for me?"
Why do you see thousands of young adults on trains and buses with their noses in their smartphones and laptops? Because answering email, sending tweets, working on a paper for school... ALL these things have MORE immediately-perceivable benefit than talking to a stranger does.
On a purely human level, this latest generation ignores churches largely because the UNKNOWN factors, like potential for friendships, potential for change/spiritual growth, etc are FAR outweighed by activities and relationships that they KNOW will produce benefits for them.
On the other, sad, side of the coin, however, you can see that having a work-week so driven by benefit and productivity leaves their "free time" open for them to pursue every hedonistic, perverted desire they can imagine.
I've known brilliant young people who can think, talk and work RINGS around their parents' generation to spend their weekends getting blind-sick-poisonous DRUNK. I mean, nearly-kill-yourself drunk.
Why? Because when you fuel your life with the imaginary stuff of benefit-based thinking, while being devoid of any spiritual life in Christ, all your non-productive time is vain, pointless and empty, and YOU CAN FEEL IT. You might not KNOW to SAY it that way, but it's true, it hurts and you'll do anything to numb that pain.
This is why the Church was at Her most powerful in the world when schooling, the arts, even labor work, were all provided by and subsidized by Her in countries around the world. True discipleship takes place when the Faith is at the center of all you do, not when you have to try and lay a veneer of "religion" over your worldly pursuits. People used to get taught, a la St. Benedict, that work was potentially holy and useful to the soul. Now they're taught that work is worldly, everything is worldly, and then you go tack "church" on to the end of it. No wonder people, even those in Newchurch every week, think their "priests" are out of touch.
The people running NewRome are worldly businessmen, not sanctified shepherds, so they are operating in such a way as to make a sinner's potential benefit from attending "mass" seem greater. The sinners IN Newchurch are presenting what their fellow sinners OUTSIDE Newchurch want to see and hear. Pathetic.