Obviously she's a novus ordite, and obviously she doesn't know jack about catholicism. Like pretty much every other "former catholic" they just want to do whatever they want to do, with no consequences. Has anyone ever met someone who left the Church who didn't leave because what they want to do conflicts with God's commandments?
My issue is in dealing with these people with patience. To me, this is the height of intentional idiocy. Leaving catholicism is like getting to mile 25 of a marathon and then just turning around and sprinting back towards the start line. What's the point of that? It's really hard not to ream her butt every time I look at her.
But I guess some people are just obstinate.
I'll keep praying for her to come back to the Faith and for me not to wring her neck when she jabbers on about 'no offense, but thats the way it is with catholics.' It's not like I'm any better than she is, in fact I'm probably worse because I do know better and still somehow manage to sin grievously.