I choose to accept Canon Law as authentic Catholic teaching. This is where we disagree.
You're in denial.
The 1917 CCL is NOT Catholic Teaching. You honestly reject what the Catholic Church actually teaches. Your authority is a commentary on Canon Law.

"Thus saith the Lord: Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from the Lord."
Jeremiah 17:5
"David was right in saying that all people lie. Mankind’s life on earth is a struggle and like the mountain dew that soon is gone, like the flower of the field that quickly withers. We mortals are so blind that out of such a multitude of people only a small portion know the true God, primarily in this part of the world, Europe, the Spaniards being the most faithful. Among those raised in the church, few confess the faith and many of them are in sin, so nineteen out of twenty parts of mankind live in darkness and blindness." [Colahan,
The Visions of Sor María de Agreda p.53]