Ambiguity such as - no one can be sure what the Church actually is if you don't even have to be Catholic, or even Christian in the broadest sense, to be in it. If neither baptism nor faith constitute membership requirements of the Body of Christ, what does? It opens the door wide open to universalism, and honestly is it even possible to condemn universalists while you preach that some people in other religions can be saved?
I don't see why its necessary to know with *absolute* certainty what individuals are included in the Church. I think its fair to say that the only way to make sure you're inside the Catholic Church is to become a visible member of the Catholic Church. I don't see how saying those things are normative requirements, while acknowledging that God isn't bound to his sacraments and can work outside them in extraordinary cases, is equivalent to saying they aren't membership requirements (This seems like overly dichotomistic thinking, like Protestants use in other places.)
I'm not opposed, at least in theory, to salvation outside of visible membership in the Church, under the narrow conditions that seem to have been proposed both by Pope Pius IX and by Archbishop Lefebvre. While certainly not dogmatic, and a lot earlier, I think we see positions in Augustine's Letter 43, and Justin Martyr's first apology, that would also fall somewhat more optimistic than the "Feeneyite" (used as a description, not as a slur) label. Admittedly, the Augustine citation is dealing with the children of *Donatists* so while I think that would at least be comparable to say the Eastern Orthodox, you could argue its not comparable to Islam or Buddhism (and I'd agree with you.)
I'll note that even Lumen Gentium, from what I recall, only says that IF a pagan who through no fault of his own doesn't know the gospel or the Church IF he follows natural law and cooperates wiith the grace he's given, etc. he can be saved. But I don't believe that it rules out some kind of angelic appearance or something like that.
As far as universalists go, I think there's a certain line between postulating extraordinary EXCEPTIONS to general rules, and saying the rules don't exist. I think anything close to universalism, by any reasonable definition, wouldn't just deny the "absolute" necessity of baptism, rather it would deny that baptism is even necessary at all. Saying a handful of individuals here and there *might* be saved by implicit baptism of desire is a very different proposition of applying that to everyone or nearly everyone. If you have so many exceptions to the rule that the rule practically for all intents and purposes doesn't even exist, I don't think that's logical.
I think the problem with Vatican II on points like this is that there aren't really careful distinctions, like those made by Pius IX or Archbishop Lefebvre. I do think Vatican II technically allows those distinctions, and could technically be acceptable. But I also think they did this on purpose. They gave us a vague docuмent that *can* easily be interpreted as crypto-universalism.
Admittedly i think I agree with Ladislaus on this point. If Vatican II ecclesiology is "heretical" per se, like no matter how you interpret it, even the strictest, most conservative, most charitable interpretation is heretical, than yeah, I think something like "feeneyism" is the logical conclusion of that belief. By contrast, if you believe, like I do, that Vatican II *can* be read orthodox, but its basically weaponized ambiguity that's written in such a manner that modernists can take a mile when only an inch is being given, I think that can reasonably lead to a conclusion similar to that of Lefebvre.
For what its worth, to be clear, I grant the possibility that no actual non-Catholics (as to visible membership) will be saved.