After much reading and thought on the question, it seems to me that most on here talk past each other on BOD threads, My position on BOD is really simple
1. There is no salvation outside the Catholic Church( all who die objectively outside the Church are damned)
2. All who are saved are saved as Catholics( no one who dies objectively a Prot or Jew, etc is saved )
3. If one lives a good life in accordance with the natural law( holding at least to belief in God and that He rewards and punishes- falling into no formal heresy) but is not united to the Church through no fault of his own God will certainly give them a chance for explicit Faith and unity with the Church before or at the moment of death.( Christ died for all, and it is generally taught by theologians that sufficient grace for salvation is offered to all. EENS is also a dogma. It follows then, as St. Thomas teaches that God will give all in ignorance who live good lives in accordance with the natural law a chance at explicit Faith before death- no one is condemned without being at fault)
This is the position of Fr. Michael Muller. Why can’t we unite around these principles, quit bickering, and leave the rest to God?