I think most of us can be good if we try. It takes one or two to sink the ship and make it yuck. There is a civil way of discussing things. This can be seen on Bellarmine Forums, Trad Forum, Faithful Catholics Forum. No offense to this one in regards to the owner, but yuck sometimes. I'm not the only one that things this.
I try to be civil. Sometimes stay civil even after someone draws first blood, sometimes not.
1. To be fair, this site tends to be a bit more open. It's sort of like "Catholic Gab" that way, though it predates gab. That openness to "dialog" also means you've allsorts here more than the other sites. That means more fights.
2. I've been to at least some of those sites and I guess we just had vastly different experiences.
1. Bellarmine? Snobs and bullies.
2. "Faithful Catholics" Booted
not because I was saying anything, but because I was asked a question by the BoD police. It's BoD or else over there. I could go on, but there is assessment, and then there is talking behind another's back.
3. I'll leave you at the civil bit, because we're just not gonna get along there either.
The irony, esp. of getting booted for being (Sede, "Feeney" etc.) is that I come to places like this to possibly find something that I missed, to be proven wrong. I absolutely despise being a Sede, but God hates lies.
Which segues into people getting frustrated because you ask for
reason, for
evidence, for
argument, for something substantial and sound and then you, 9/10 get a bunch of irrelevant rubbish.
Case in point: an individual recently stated that there was explicit condemnation of Sedevacantism. Okay, great then. IF that is so, then it is so, and Catholics say "roger" and drive on.
But, you'd think such a potentially great work of mercy wouldn't even need to be asked for, let alone begged for, but of course it was just a bs tease as always. IN short, you look for reason and find a liar.
Anyway, I'm quitting this whilst hopefully ahead and to be square, straight, and clear, we aren't on the same page either, but as stated before, no need to get ridiculous even with an enemy. Matter of fact that is much more likely to be fatal than a to be a fool amongst friends.
out.