No one likes being called a heretic out of hand. Baptism of desire and blood are in multiple catechisms, referred to in canon law, papal encyclical, and letter from the Holy Office, as well as St Alphonsus a doctor of the Church. All this over the course of several hundred years. If the Feeney people want to say someone is in error for believing in BoD and BoB, fair enough, but don't call us a heretic, because it's not heresy. On the other hand the Feeney people do have seem to have some recourse to several Church Father's and other sources. So, based on that they shouldn't be called heretics either. I think not calling each other heretics and condemning each other over this issue would be a good way to generate some civility and good will.