Also, the "fires of hell" are a punishment for mortal sin. Infants are not personally guilty of mortal sin, so they do not suffer eternal fire. It is true that no man can be completely happy if he is separated from God. But that doesn't mean that one cannot achieve a natural happiness, even if separated from God.
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Aren't we on earth separated from God, yet we can still have natural happiness (to some degree, at some times, but not all the time and not completely). And do we not (to some degree, and at MANY times) also feel the emptiness of life, because we are created for God, whom we cannot yet possess fully? Of course. So in the same way, those in Limbo could have a "perfect" natural happiness but still suffer because they do not possess God.
Before I go further, I will just say speculation, speculation, this is all speculation.
Is it not possible that those in limbo enjoy a "perfect natural happiness" but do not suffer, because even though they do not possess God, they do not
know that they are lacking in anything? Could it be like someone who lives on a beautiful seashore, the weather is perfect 12 months a year, any rainfall is light and pleasant, no natural disasters, abundant food and drink, pleasant natives, always in good health, like the finest Club Med you can imagine. They go around day in and day out thinking "life is good" and want nothing more, because they are not aware that there
is "something more"? That there is a perfect city over the horizon, out of sight, and there is high culture in abundance, endless opportunities for enjoyment and improvement of oneself, the most enjoyable and fulfilling social relationships imaginable, and delights that make their "Club Med" look like a rundown beach hotel? It exists, but they don't know it. Is
that a possibility?