If you actually believe this, then this belief hinges on the impossibility for the person to receive the sacrament.
I ask again for you to come up with a circuмstance where it is impossible for God to provide the sacrament to the sincere soul about to die.
You are incorrect. The teaching is not based on the idea that it is impossible for God to provide the sacrament to the sincere soul about to die.
But in a sense He does, so long as that soul in addition to being sincere has a supernatural faith and perfect charity. The sincere soul as you know, is not aware of the necessity of baptism or the necessity of belonging to the Church
through no fault of his own (how many such people are there?). This soul is baptized by the Holy Ghost in that such a one is cleansed of Original Sin by Him. This baptism of the Holy Ghost is what is referred to as "Baptism of Desire".
The authoritative Docuмents and the infallible ones teach baptism of desire being fully aware that God
can baptize with water the sincere soul about to die. They are also aware that He
does not always do so and is not obliged to do so, but in fact that He rarely works it out that they get sacramentally baptized through some miracle. But the innocent does not get condemned on this account because his soul is cleansed by sanctifying grace and not by water in these circuмstances.
You are putting the apple before the cart insisting on that which is necessary with a
relative necessity of means (sacramental baptism) over that which is necessary with an
absolute or
intrinsic necessity of means (sanctifying grace). This hypothetical man we speak about is saved within the Church through the intrinsically necessary means.