As "you" have said repeatedly. Please understand, and don't take offence. I don't go by "you". I go by the theologians, Fathers, Saints, Doctors and Popes. The distinction is essential in understanding the aforementioned on this particular topic.
You know, every time you have nothing theological/philosophical/logic to say about a subject, you just scamper back behind the trite "I go by the theologians ..." retort.
I repeat, this is not about what God CAN do but about what God DOES. God CAN do all kinds of things, but God has willed to do certain things in certain ways. What God CAN do pertains to God
quoad se, whereas what God ACTUALLY DOES pertains to God
quoad nos.