A personal decision? HA!
That's not what I meant, dude.
I mean that if someone came up to you off the street and said, "I think Trent is wrong and here's what I believe." You would, correctly, tell them, "No, this is what Trent says" and explain it to them.
Me, I want to know WHY and HOW they thought Trent was wrong. Especially for family members/friends. I want to know the deeper reason they bought into the lie that Trent was wrong. Because in my experience, that's the only way to convert someone who's hard headed. You gotta step into their shoes.
But there's not always time for that either. Sometimes you gotta tell the truth and move on.