ut baptism of desire is a baptism, or else it would not be called Baptism of desire, now would it?
Who here said it wasn't a baptism? Or is that just your way to sound like you know what you are talking about?
I find it funny how you appear to be getting agitated over this discussion. If you can't handle this discussion you're free to not post. Do you always get upset when people don't agree with you?
Anyways...
Now, to answer your question, no one said it wasn't a baptism. I was making the point that it is (or at least, you are, necessarily, saying that it is) a baptism by asking that question. If BoD is really a baptism, and natural water is necessary for baptism, how is baptism of desire supposed to work? Trent does say that natural water is necessary for baptism. You can get as irritated as you want, but I'm not leaving this alone until I get answers that actually make sense.
First off, I was not nor am I agitated, but wanted to make the point that BOD is a baptism because the Church teaches it as such.
People here have answered your question but you don't like the answer.
My imagination for what it's worth is, instead of pouring water over the head (which is the outward sign of a sacrament). God pours out His grace upon the soul of the person who died without the sacrament, but died in Gods favor. The person died because, although he/she had every intention of being baptized by water, yet his/her time on earth came up. Remember there is no time where God is, He is not concerned with time. God is NOT restricted by time.
If these answers don't satisfy you, you might have to wait till you see God face to face and ask Him. You said you were not going to leave it alone till you get an answer, be careful what you wish for; since you won't believe His Church.