And please let me clarify my stance: I am not trying to be stubborn. I do recognize that BOD may be possible.
But the arguments I've read are vague and sometimes seem to be a stretch of interpretations. If I were to see a clear teaching from a Pope or dogmatic council in favor of BOD, I would certainly adhere. I just don't believe I've seen that yet.
Interestingly enough, I found a quote from then Cardinal Ratzinger where he says "Feeneyites" should not be considered heretics:
"With regards to those who hold strictly the absolute necessity of water baptism, it would be quite wrong to charge them with heretical constructs. As they merely assert that which was the near-universal consensus of the Patristic era, such a charge would be proximate to condemning all but a few of the Fathers as heterodox. (Der Glaube das Pimmelkopfgelauben, Communio April 1997 p 13. Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger.)"