The BOD controversy is created by a separate question, viz. whether only those who have completed water-baptism may be saved.
PereJoseph correctly answered your examples.
Let me add that there would be no need for speculations on all the variations of "baptism of desire", if there was no need for baptism of water.
It is a dogma of the Church that to be a member of the Church one must be baptized. It is also a dogma of the Church that those who die outside of the Church are lost.
The dogmatically defined language could not be any clearer. If it does not mean what it says, then nothing of Church teaching is clear.
Pope Pius XII, Mystici Corporis (# 22), June 29, 1943: “Actually only those are to
be numbered among the members of the Church who have received the laver
of regeneration [water baptism] and profess the true faith.”
Pope Pius XII, Mystici Corporis (# 27), June 29, 1943: “He (Christ) also determined that through Baptism (cf. Jn. 3:5) those who should believe would be
incorporated in the Body of the Church.”
Pope Pius XII, Mediator Dei (# 43), Nov. 20, 1947: “In the same way, actually that baptism is the distinctive mark of all Christians, and serves to differentiate
them from those who have not been cleansed in this purifying stream and
consequently are not members of Christ, the sacrament of holy orders sets the
priest apart from the rest of the faithful who have not received this
consecration.”
Council of Trent. Seventh Session. March, 1547. Decree on the Sacraments.
On Baptism
Canon 5. If any one saith, that
baptism is optional, that is, not necessary unto salvation; let him be anathema.
This Canon is on the sacrament of baptism, that is the subject and title of the Session. It is very clear that the sacrament of baptism is necessary for salvation. BOD is not a sacrament!
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CANON 2.-If any one saith, that
true and natural water is not of necessity for baptism, and, on that account, wrests, to some sort of metaphor, those words of our Lord Jesus Christ; Unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Ghost; let him be anathema.
This is very clear too, and concurs with the Canon 5 above.
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Session VII (March 3, 1547)
Canons on the Sacraments in General
Canon IV. If any one saith, that the
sacraments of the New Law are not necessary unto salvation, but superfluous; and that, without them, or without the desire thereof, men obtain of God, through faith alone, the grace of justification;
though all (the sacraments) are not indeed necessary for every individual; let him be anathema.
(The heading of this Session is sacraments in General. That means all seven sacraments, baptism, confirmation, penance, communion, matrimony, extreme unction, and the priesthood. Baptism of desire is not a sacrament, so please refrain from salivating at the sight of the word “desire”. One can’t become a priest or be married “by desire”.)
This says that the
sacraments are necessary for salvation. It also says that not all are necessary for every individual, therefore, at least one is necessary for salvation. this one can only be the sacrament of baptism, since that's exactly what the two Canons on the sacrament of baptism say.
The three canons concur with each other perfectly and clearly.
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Now, the proponents of BOD of the catechumen, ask the speculative question:
What happens to a catechumen:
1)who is sanctified by God before being baptized,
2)then dies unexpectedly,
3)while still in a state of grace,
4)without anyone around to baptize him?
This is total speculation. What are the chances of such a possibility? Here's additional comments concerning points 1,2,3, and 4 above:
1) Yes, a person potentially can be sanctified before receiving the sacrament of baptism, Trent has said so, however, how long before baptism? It maybe one second before the water hits his head. If a person is sanctified one second before baptism, that would be before.
2)3)4)- no one dies unexpectedly to God. Why would God sanctify someone, then take his life before anyone can baptize him?
The only answer to the speculative question above, that would fulfill all the requirements of Trent touched on by this question,
is that, every person sanctified before receiving the sacrament of baptism, will be baptized. They cannot die unbaptized, God would not allow them to die. No such person has ever existed or will ever exist. This is what St. Augustine meant by:
St. Augustine: “If you wish to be a Catholic, do not venture to believe, to say, or to teach that ‘
they whom the Lord has predestinated for baptism can be snatched away from his predestination, or die before that has been accomplished in them which the Almighty has predestined.’ There is in such a dogma more power than I can tell assigned to chances in opposition to the power of God, by the occurrence of which casualties that which He has predestinated is not permitted to come to pass.
It is hardly necessary to spend time or earnest words in cautioning the man who takes up with this error against the absolute vortex of confusion into which it will absorb him, when I shall sufficiently meet the case if I briefly warn the prudent man who is ready to receive correction against the threatening mischief.” (On the Soul and Its Origin 3, 13)