haha. No I am kind when it is proper to be kind and hard when it is proper to be hard.
I do take factual correction though. And if I make honest mistakes, life is too short to double down on them.
You did apologize which was refreshing!
I think people also confuse the manner of presentation with the substance of what is said.
It has been said that St. Augustine and St. Jerome did not get along personally because their temperaments were not a good match, or something along those lines. That does not mean they sinned in interacting. This kumbaya social teaching is very destructive.