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Offline Matto

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Death Without Baptism!
« on: November 08, 2019, 07:30:50 PM »
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  • I want feeneyites and non feeneyites to respond to this. This was something told us by a traditional priest in a sermon a while ago that really bothered me. I will not reveal the priest's name. Let me know what you think, ESPECIALLY if you DO believe in Baptism of Desire.

    There was a man dying in the hospital that did not ask for a priest but was saying Catholic prayers and told the nurses that he wanted to become a Catholic. He was never baptized. He did not call for a priest. He got worse and became unconscious and was nearing death. The nurses remembered that he wanted to become a Catholic and called a priest (It was not explained how they called a traditional priest and not a Novus Ordo one) and they told him that the man was not baptized but told them that he wanted to become a Catholic. The priest arrived and the man was unconscious. He knew the man was unbaptized and expressed interest in becoming a Catholic. However the priest could not talk to the man and confirm his desire to be baptized and profess the faith. So the priest let him die unbaptized and hoped that he would be saved by Baptism of Desire.

    What think you? This really bothered me as I would have thought he should certainly be baptized. Was this what the priest was supposed to do? Letting the man die unbaptized?

    This was the story as I remember it being told in the sermon.
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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #1 on: November 08, 2019, 07:41:08 PM »
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  • Modern BODers have developed such an aversion to baptism that they avoid doing it whenever possible. After all, why go to the hassle and get someone's hair all wet if BOD will save them anyway?


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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #2 on: November 08, 2019, 08:05:55 PM »
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  • This is absolutely horrible.  All that's needed is SOME INDICATION that the person might want to become a Catholic to perform Baptism under those circuмstances.  That was given by the testimony of the person who called for the priest.  If the person knew enough to want to become Catholic, he presumably knew about the core articles of faith, Our Lord and the Holy Trinity.  If there's NO indication of an intent or desire to become Catholic, that's when the priest cannot baptize.

    I would NOT want to be that priest on his judgment day.  This is unbelievable.  Was this a neo-SSPX priest?

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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #3 on: November 08, 2019, 08:08:50 PM »
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  • Whether or not someone believes in BoD is absolutely immaterial.  Even if you believe in it, the subjective dispositions required for that are so much more difficult to attain, especially having never received the graces of the Sacraments.  That's like a priest saying, well, I won't give him absolution and will just hope that he made a perfect act of contrition.  That's like saying, I won't give him Last Rights thinking that he'll probably make it.

    This priest should be immediately suspended and sent off to a monastery.

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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #4 on: November 08, 2019, 08:12:57 PM »
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  • With all these idiots talking about "implicit" this and "implicit" that, if the person says, "I want to become a Catholic," that implicitly means embracing the Catholic faith and also an intention to do what it takes to become Catholic, i.e. to get baptized.  There's no need to elicit an explicit "I wish to be baptized."



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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #5 on: November 08, 2019, 08:14:51 PM »
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  • . . . I do not think this was a resistance issue. But it was an SSPX priest who I otherwise thought was good. I wondered if what he did was according to his training or if it was on his own prerogative. I do not remember the year of his ordination, but he is old enough that I am pretty sure he was trained by Bishop Williamson and I had never heard him speak badly of Williamson, though he did not support the resistance. Nobody else mentioned their unease at hearing what he had done, and I did not bring it up to the other parishioners or to the priest.
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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #6 on: November 08, 2019, 08:15:02 PM »
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  • If I were the nurse, I would have kicked the priest out of the room and baptized him myself.

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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #7 on: November 08, 2019, 08:16:18 PM »
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  • . . .

    I was just inquiring whether it was SSPX because this would be a commentary on the fact that the pastoral theology at the new seminary is woefully inadequate.


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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #8 on: November 08, 2019, 08:35:48 PM »
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  • Baptism of desire is irrelevent here. The man expressed his wish to be baptised, a nurse called a priest and informed him of the situation. In spite of knowing that the man had expressed the wish, (why would the nurse lie about this?) the priest refused.  INcredible! Absolutely horrible!

    Under whose jurisdiction is this priest performing (or rather refusing to perform) his function as a priest?
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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #9 on: November 08, 2019, 08:44:28 PM »
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  • The priest did not give all the details as it was just a little story and not the main point of the sermon. He said the man expressed a desire to become a Catholic to the nurse. I am not sure how much desire and how strong the desire was but it was known that the man was not baptized so they must have talked about it. It was enough desire that the nurse called for a priest when he was dying. He came. And because he could not talk to the man because he was unconscious he decided not to baptize him. That is what was said to us. Perhaps when he talked to the nurse he determined the man did not express enough desire to be baptized or that the nurse exaggerated this desire or perhaps it was vague so it was better not to. But I just thought that he should have baptized him the way it was described by him. Perhaps the priest knew more and did not express it and maybe he thought the man did not really want to be a Catholic and the nurse was exaggerating his desire and the nurse just called a priest when every man was dying. But it troubled me when I heard it the way he said it. When he said it I thought to myself "Oh no. The poor man is in hell now." If there is a BOD I hope he received it. I don't know why I am talking about it here and now but it came to me and I thought it was worth discussing.
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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #10 on: November 08, 2019, 09:55:52 PM »
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  • There's a huge need for trad Catholics to assist disoriented Catholics nowadays.

    Just visiting such a person in the hospital will bring many graces.

    A simple Rosary will open the door to these souls.  It may provide the opportunity to offer a Brown Scapular or even a Baptism.


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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #11 on: November 09, 2019, 01:04:29 AM »
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  • This was the story as I remember it being told in the sermon.
    I can only hope there's more to the story than what you wrote.  I cannot imagine being in the room with an unbaptized dying person who had expressed a desire to become Catholic, and not baptizing him right away. 

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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #12 on: November 09, 2019, 05:32:40 AM »
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  • What think you? This really bothered me as I would have thought he should certainly be baptized. Was this what the priest was supposed to do? Letting the man die unbaptized?

    This was the story as I remember it being told in the sermon.
    Man, talk about a head spinning story, it bothers me too! The priest was supposed to baptize him! It's catechism 101 that in danger of death, baptism must not be delayed! A priest's #1 priority before anything else is the same as the Church's, the salvation of souls.  

    While it is true that under normal circuмstances, the recipient must elicit an act of faith before he can be baptized, being in danger of death, I do not see how it can even be questioned - under the circuмstances, he did that by saying he wanted to become a Catholic.

    Too bad the nurse was ignorant of the Catholic faith, she could have elicited an act of faith from him then baptized him, then called the priest. Too bad the man was ignorant of the Catholic faith too, because he could have told her to baptize him. Too bad the priest was dumber then the both of them put together, because he could have saved that man's soul, but didn't.

    Hopefully you are not remembering the story correctly Matto because this one stinks bad.

     
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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #13 on: November 09, 2019, 05:58:20 AM »
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  • Whether or not someone believes in BoD is absolutely immaterial.  Even if you believe in it, the subjective dispositions required for that are so much more difficult to attain, especially having never received the graces of the Sacraments.  That's like a priest saying, well, I won't give him absolution and will just hope that he made a perfect act of contrition.  That's like saying, I won't give him Last Rights thinking that he'll probably make it.

    This priest should be immediately suspended and sent off to a monastery.
    Lad, I think you know that I believe in BoD (obviously not in the broad sense), but what you wrote above is absolutely correct!
    For what doth it profit a man, if he gain the whole world, and suffer the loss of his own soul? Or what exchange shall a man give for his soul?

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    Re: Death Without Baptism!
    « Reply #14 on: November 09, 2019, 06:19:49 AM »
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  • Just to add a clarification, the baptism should be done conditionally.
    For what doth it profit a man, if he gain the whole world, and suffer the loss of his own soul? Or what exchange shall a man give for his soul?