Where is it taught that God is bound in duty to give every man a chance at heaven? In fact, the opposite is true, and is a doctrine of the Faith - that we are all judged guilty of Adam's sin and we all deserve hell. The fact that God sent His Son to redeem us is a gift, and so is heaven. None of us deserves forgiveness of sins, or a redeemer, or grace, much less heaven. Your entitlement mentality towards heaven is blasphemous.
Here:
"Just as it is
God's true and sincere will that all men, no one excepted, shall obtain eternal
happiness, so, too, Christ has died for all (Denz., n. 794), not only for the predestined (Denz., n. 1096), or for the faithful (Denz., n. 1294), though it is
true that in reality not all avail themselves of the benefits of
redemption (Denz., n. 795). Though
God preordained both eternal
happiness and the
good works of the
elect (Denz., n. 322),
yet, on the other hand, He predestined no one positively to hell, much less to sin (Denz., nn. 200, 816). Consequently, just as no one is saved against his will (Denz., n. 1363),
so the reprobate perish solely on account of their wickedness (Denz., nn. 318, 321).
God foresaw the everlasting pains of the impious from all
eternity, and preordained this punishment on account of their
sins (Denz., n. 322), though He does not fail therefore to hold out the grace of conversion to sinners (Denz., n. 807), or pass over those who are not predestined (Denz., n. 827). As long as the reprobate live on earth, they may be accounted
true Christians and members of the
Church, just as on the other hand the predestined may be outside the pale of
Christianity and of the
Church (Denz., nn. 628, 631)."
http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/12378a.htmConsequently, the idea that some are predestined to hell ("negetive predestination") is heretical (which is also why the Feeneyite is heretical).