So you used the wrong terms and now you admit this is really just vulgar or coarse language. Good.
I always meant "profanity/swearing" as vulgar/coarse language because like i said, i have seen and heard them being used interchangeably and to mean the same thing. I never meant swearing/cursing/profanity in their exact meanings.
Why don't you find a moral theologian who addresses this (vulgar language) instead of rashly accusing people of mortal sin? I notice you've possibly downgraded your judgment to a venial sin; I think an apology to Jehanne might be in order.
Yes i accept that after some consideration, i can't say for sure whether it is a mortal or a venial sin and i jumped the gun. It probably isn't mortal but i still think it is very bad.
So sure i apologize for saying it was a clear mortal sin when in reality i'm not even sure if it is mortal.
And i would prefer the words of a Saint and not a moral theologian because like i told you some approved of sodomy within marriage to which, by the way, you did not answer whether you agree with.