But, baptism of desire IS "de fide".
Do you even know what a theological note is?


And then also, implicit vs. explicit BOD is just another opinion within the opinion.
If someone has explicit faith in the Trinity, Redemption, and a desire to enter the Church through baptism, but due to some insane and rare set of circuмstances - through no fault of their own - they are unable to procure water baptism and are literally DYING, one may hold that IF God gives them the grace to believe, repent, and have the efficacious desire to be baptized, that what He gives He gives for a purpose and such a one MAY be saved.
I think your letter probably just confused your relative, or you just made another narnarbobohead.