What do you mean by the bolded? If I had the Faith that I do now, but died unbaptized(as a catechumen) I do believe I would be saved. Now, if I had an opportunity for Baptism, and rejected it or delayed, that's another story
Yes, if you knew what you know now is what I meant.
The bolded brings up yet another point of discussion. The doctrine of Divine Providence teaches that, just as God arranged for you and I to be baptized, by that very same Providence He arranges for anyone else who desires it to be baptized. Except for our own free will, there is absolutely no obstacle to the invincible God achieving His designs for us, one of those designs is that we be sacramentally baptized as per John 3:5.
Do you disagree that all who have ever been baptized, have been baptized by the very same providence with which you and I were baptized? By the very same providence, I mean that God provided us the time to do it and the water for doing it, and the minister for doing it, just exactly as He has done for all who have ever been or ever will be baptized.
I would like to understand where is Divine Providence when it comes to a BOD. Being that a BOD happens without any Divine providence or intervention (other than God is the ultimate cause of the recipient's non-reception of the sacrament), and since it is in fact wholly essential to the doctrine of a BOD that there be a total neglect of that very same providence which was absolutely essential for the rest of us, how can we say that one who dies certainly not baptized, saved himself, that is, achieved salvation without God?