Xavier, over and over you demonstrate bad will when it comes to this issue ... and others.
You're a very emotional person, which is why I called you XavierFem for a while, with itchy ears for private revelation, and this bleeds over into major logical errors in your syllogisms and other arguments. As emotional as you are, you really aren't suited to doing actual theology.
Fr. Cekada admitted his own emotional reason for wanting to believe in BoD, and it is these very same emotional reasons that are behind ALL proponents of BoD ... except for a few who just parroted it back without fully studying the question.
Those with open minds and sincerely seeking the truth, once they actually dig into and study the question, come away with the same conclusion, that BoD is a piece of speculative theology that has been tolerated by the Church. I think that this is very clear, and the Dimonds cross the line by considering to be formal heretics those who believe in even a BoD for catechumens.