Today we commemorate St Emerentiana in the Divine Office.
Commemoration for St Emerentiana:
Emerentiana was a Roman maiden, and the foster-sister of the blessed Agnes. While she was still a Catechumen she was inspired by her faith and love to rebuke the fury of the idol-worshippers against the Christians, whereupon a mob assembled, and stoned her so severely that she was only able to drag herself to the grave of holy Agnes, where, while she prayed, she gave up her soul to God, being baptized, not in water, but in her own blood, so freely shed for Christ.
If the St. Benedict Center does not recognize her as a Catholic and a Saint, then I would say they have indeed lost their way in trying to defend their position. Not uncommon when you are being pulverized by just about everyone within and without and find yourself forced to dig yourself a hole or erect a rampart.
And I say this with sadness as I don't think we ever had better teachers of the Faith in our modern era. Right next door to Harvard University.
Why they just couldn't say, "If Baptism of Desire exists, it is most likely such an extreme rarity that it behooves all men to get to the Fount as quickly as possible." They could have gone on, "we will leave it up to the Magesterium to explain it, but we are very concerned that, in our opinion, the Church is presently inadvertently denying the need for Baptism and we trust this is an oversight and that for whatever reason the Church does not recognize the evil that can result from it."
Something along those lines.
So here we had the smartest and most holy people converting the elite of the children of the Enlightenment. But for some reason when push came to shove, they seemed to allow the sacrifice of the very good that was occurring because they could not have the perfect.
End result. Most people think of Baptism of Desire as another Sacrament that gives those who receive it the luxury of living your life without any restraints as long as your a good person and didn't hurt anyone else. This reminds me of a lot of hardcore trads.