One thing...not to usurp this thread, but I must give my testimony, and am afraid of being mocked if I make a new thread about it.
after making my private vow of perpetual continence, I was assulted by an overhelming love for babies. I cannot tell you how great it was, just to say that I was melting away. My whole being was begging for a baby. It was so strong that I lost my appetite and bodily strenght and even wept at night when none could see me.
Then I come to a solution: "why not to give all of this love to the Christ Child?" I gave all these longings to Him, and felt my heart was filled when looking at the images of our Lady of laleche.
This devotion saved me from that awful condition.